Metaphysical
Senior Don Juan
Fort Lauderdale looks pretty balanced to me in terms of demographics (more non Latinos), less isolating. But the average age seems quite a bit older. Anyone have any experience there?
"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
Observations on Miami's scene.
- Thread starter Jesse Pinkman
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"She's Out of Your League"
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
Jesse Pinkman
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You'd be surprised. The Guidos flood up everywhere north of Ft. Lauderdale and the prime Miami nightclubs like LIV and Story draw the traveling ones like the plague. Florida is a hub for transplants from NY and NJ. Thankfully it isn't too bad and we are lucky to have actual Italians in Miami (which means actual Italian women as well) but Guido culture loves anything flashy and fancy so they come down here at every turn. Thankfully, I have not run into too many schnookies or Fredos in Miami nightlife unlike the clubs in Manhattan so that is one of the saving graces.
SW15
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Median age in Broward County (Fort Lauderdale) is similar to Miami-Dade County. Palm Beach County is older than Broward County. Population pyramids are better indicators than population median ages.
SpartanWarrior77
Master Don Juan
Some smart comments, I relate to your experience as someone who lives in Miami.
I've noticed chad/himbo types do well in Miami area.
Speaking spanish is a huge plus out here.
Hard to find women who are not just into the restaurant, influencer, money oriented scene.
Everything in Miami is extremely commoditized. Everything is a business here.
Definitely possible to meet eastern european women here but they are often botox bimbo types, same with latinas.
You are expected to wine and dine here.
There is major competition with rich boys.
But there are some options for sure for savy players.
As someone who is looking for more GF material chicks, I find it a bit tough. Miami is a singles city and its flashy AF.
"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
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Miami is a majority Hispanic city and Miami-Dade County is also majority Hispanic. The non-Hispanic White population is not that high in Miami-Dade County anymore. I think speaking Spanish would be a necessity for a non-Hispanic White male to try to fit in there.
Yes, that's true. I think it would be worst in South Beach and Brickell.
SpartanWarrior77
Master Don Juan
Yeah if someone here likes materialistic latin women with lots of surgery who expect to be "taken care of", Miami is it.