"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
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“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”
You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.
I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.
Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.
These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.
lexdiamond20
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LOL Im not sure if there are any girls as open as white girls. They just make the world a better place.gongxia649 said:maybe because they were asian. they are not as open as white girls..
BlackAccord
Don Juan
Ideas for future outings - hit the Lavalife parties. there was actually one going on tonite, but I couldnt quite make it, but these parties are great. Lots of girls and great for practicing. I'll keep u posted abut these parties, but just go to www.lavalife.com and there's lists of when the next parties are. the Toshi parties (www.toshiparty.com). just click on the link and check out the website. these are also great. they're held in the Puck building with open bar (50 bucks entry or so). Lincoln center Swing Dance - yup tons of women love to swing (i know - i did ballroom dancing for 5 yrs and met a lot of women that way - u need no pretense at all. just ask someone to dance and the women love it). the Lincoln center swing starts in a week or 2. There's a whole lot of other places too in NYC...all u need is to get together a group. Cultural societies like Asia Society, South Asian Networking Association all have happy hours ALL the time...great place to meet asian women (continuing the thread from above). One thing i've been meaning to go to is to take a bartending class. there are always women in these classes. If you guys want, I can send y'all invites from a business networking association that I belong to called Ryze (www.ryze.com). this association has TONS of social events listed all the time. I speak from experience - good place to meet and pick up women. Just email me and I can set u up w/ the invites. Any more ideas, please post...
"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
Drum&Bass
Master Don Juan
count me in !
ssj245 , next week I'm gonna be going out with the women I met on saturday, and I know all the other guys are gonna be busy to, so you gotta wait awhile kid !
BlackAccord
Don Juan
BlackAccord
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"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
BlackAccord
Don Juan
Woh there killer. I really don't think race has much to do with whether a girl is "cold" or not.gongxia649 said:maybe because they were asian. they are not as open as white girls..
Sure, I'd be game.NiR said:i just read this thread. im new but anyone interested to do another hangout like this in nyc?
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Drum&Bass
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I can come through with some solid plans but if anyone knows any events that would be the key.
"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
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“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.