"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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haha, i think next week is too soon, ill get something goin again or if someone wants to take charge..feel free
 
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Fellas, I (Sai) had a kick ass time hanging out and learning with the whole lot of y'all. would love to do it again. Everybody were pretty cool and would love to get to know everyone better other than just PUAs. To those that were there at underbar in Union square with me, that place rocks and well worth going back there for future sarging escapades (in the very near future)...
 
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Fellas,
Ideas for future outings - hit the Lavalife parties. there was actually one going on tonite, but I couldnt quite make it, but these parties are great. Lots of girls and great for practicing. I'll keep u posted abut these parties, but just go to www.lavalife.com and there's lists of when the next parties are. the Toshi parties (www.toshiparty.com). just click on the link and check out the website. these are also great. they're held in the Puck building with open bar (50 bucks entry or so). Lincoln center Swing Dance - yup tons of women love to swing (i know - i did ballroom dancing for 5 yrs and met a lot of women that way - u need no pretense at all. just ask someone to dance and the women love it). the Lincoln center swing starts in a week or 2. There's a whole lot of other places too in NYC...all u need is to get together a group. Cultural societies like Asia Society, South Asian Networking Association all have happy hours ALL the time...great place to meet asian women (continuing the thread from above). One thing i've been meaning to go to is to take a bartending class. there are always women in these classes. If you guys want, I can send y'all invites from a business networking association that I belong to called Ryze (www.ryze.com). this association has TONS of social events listed all the time. I speak from experience - good place to meet and pick up women. Just email me and I can set u up w/ the invites. Any more ideas, please post...
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Sai whats up dood ! Your a pretty active guy and you have great ideas !!!!
count me in !

ssj245 , next week I'm gonna be going out with the women I met on saturday, and I know all the other guys are gonna be busy to, so you gotta wait awhile kid !
 
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If there's a big request for something soon, I got nothing goin for Saturday night (my f'in 1st camping trip got cancelled), maybe get together a small sarge group and hit the city? Let me know what you guys think.
 
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id be down, just let me know where in village i can get that ID.
the bouncer was funny "nice u go this from teh villege eh?"
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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yeah i know i have to get back to you on that, i have to find out the exact address from my friend, im making a new topic for this meet
 
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maybe because they were asian. they are not as open as white girls..
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Woh there killer. I really don't think race has much to do with whether a girl is "cold" or not.
 
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It's definitely time to do this again, if anyone can come through with details about a singles get together, Lavalife etc...that would probably make for a good night of meeting women.

I can come through with some solid plans but if anyone knows any events that would be the key.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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i think it's about time we guys get together again before the weather starts coolin down LOL college season is a week away
 
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cool, I got a bunch of places I've been wanting to hit up.
all we need is a date when everyone is available and I'll make the plans.
hopefully your all over 21 or got a reliable fake ID.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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