SuperAlbert
Don Juan
25 here. Best time for me are on Friday's since the last bus from the Port Authority leaves at 1:30 am (I don't have a car).
"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.
NYC Meeting! NJ, NY, PA, CT, NYC June 3rd, 2006 Get in here!
- Thread starter BlackAccord
- Start date
"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
lexdiamond20
Don Juan
Hey im down. First meeting was pretty fun. A few guys from Mystery Method.com would like to hang out too. Ill give them a heads up.
lexdiamond20
Don Juan
Drum, start a new thread with a headline along the lines of "NYC sarge meetup - Sept. 2"Drum&Bass said:
"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
WestCoast1492
Don Juan
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I have a party on Sept 2nd!!! 
gongxia649
Don Juan
i will really hang out with the last group of people i met in NY.
But i think i cant go to this one on spt 2nd. im not in Njersey anymore.
i will go back to NJ in DEC due to bussiness related.
But i think i cant go to this one on spt 2nd. im not in Njersey anymore.
i will go back to NJ in DEC due to bussiness related.
lexdiamond20
Don Juan
Hey is it at all possible for us to meet up the same place we did the first time; Penn Station. Its a familiar landmark and I dont think any one of us that showed up there had a hard time finding it.
Also, Bass, since your the one organizing this one, make sure you get everyones conatact info.
Also, Bass, since your the one organizing this one, make sure you get everyones conatact info.
"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.