"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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haha, i think next week is too soon, ill get something goin again or if someone wants to take charge..feel free
 
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Fellas, I (Sai) had a kick ass time hanging out and learning with the whole lot of y'all. would love to do it again. Everybody were pretty cool and would love to get to know everyone better other than just PUAs. To those that were there at underbar in Union square with me, that place rocks and well worth going back there for future sarging escapades (in the very near future)...
 
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Fellas,
Ideas for future outings - hit the Lavalife parties. there was actually one going on tonite, but I couldnt quite make it, but these parties are great. Lots of girls and great for practicing. I'll keep u posted abut these parties, but just go to www.lavalife.com and there's lists of when the next parties are. the Toshi parties (www.toshiparty.com). just click on the link and check out the website. these are also great. they're held in the Puck building with open bar (50 bucks entry or so). Lincoln center Swing Dance - yup tons of women love to swing (i know - i did ballroom dancing for 5 yrs and met a lot of women that way - u need no pretense at all. just ask someone to dance and the women love it). the Lincoln center swing starts in a week or 2. There's a whole lot of other places too in NYC...all u need is to get together a group. Cultural societies like Asia Society, South Asian Networking Association all have happy hours ALL the time...great place to meet asian women (continuing the thread from above). One thing i've been meaning to go to is to take a bartending class. there are always women in these classes. If you guys want, I can send y'all invites from a business networking association that I belong to called Ryze (www.ryze.com). this association has TONS of social events listed all the time. I speak from experience - good place to meet and pick up women. Just email me and I can set u up w/ the invites. Any more ideas, please post...
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Sai whats up dood ! Your a pretty active guy and you have great ideas !!!!
count me in !

ssj245 , next week I'm gonna be going out with the women I met on saturday, and I know all the other guys are gonna be busy to, so you gotta wait awhile kid !
 
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If there's a big request for something soon, I got nothing goin for Saturday night (my f'in 1st camping trip got cancelled), maybe get together a small sarge group and hit the city? Let me know what you guys think.
 
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id be down, just let me know where in village i can get that ID.
the bouncer was funny "nice u go this from teh villege eh?"
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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yeah i know i have to get back to you on that, i have to find out the exact address from my friend, im making a new topic for this meet
 
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gongxia649 said:
maybe because they were asian. they are not as open as white girls..
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Woh there killer. I really don't think race has much to do with whether a girl is "cold" or not.
 
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It's definitely time to do this again, if anyone can come through with details about a singles get together, Lavalife etc...that would probably make for a good night of meeting women.

I can come through with some solid plans but if anyone knows any events that would be the key.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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i think it's about time we guys get together again before the weather starts coolin down LOL college season is a week away
 
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cool, I got a bunch of places I've been wanting to hit up.
all we need is a date when everyone is available and I'll make the plans.
hopefully your all over 21 or got a reliable fake ID.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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