BxPrince24
Senior Don Juan
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I might come. I'll let you guys know definately by tomorrow.
"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
NYC Meeting! NJ, NY, PA, CT, NYC June 3rd, 2006 Get in here!
- Thread starter BlackAccord
- Start date
"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
KingBeef
Master Don Juan
we have another...we still need more people...sign up!!
BlackAccord
Don Juan
As of right now it's still on! Check back early afternoon in case there is a problem. Otherwise, I have all of your cell's and you should all have mine. And KingBeef, good post very very true.
gongxia649
Don Juan
this is no some kind of robbery right?
"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
BlackAccord
Don Juan
Hah no man, were sticking to public places the entire time, no exceptions. Feel free to bring a friend with you in case your worried.
Check back tomorrow early afternoon for exact place.
List thus far:
Blackaccord-Jeff w/ 3 friends
LexDiamond20-Omar
KingBeef-Jon
ssj245-Hark
rock-star_brian-Brian
ABSoluteboxer-Kelvin
afficax2-fang
Oh and post or msg me suggestions on where to go!
Check back tomorrow early afternoon for exact place.
List thus far:
Blackaccord-Jeff w/ 3 friends
LexDiamond20-Omar
KingBeef-Jon
ssj245-Hark
rock-star_brian-Brian
ABSoluteboxer-Kelvin
afficax2-fang
Oh and post or msg me suggestions on where to go!
gongxia649
Don Juan
i might go then cause im in metropark station. ill comfirm tomorrow for sure.
BlackAccord
Don Juan
sounds good man, hope to see ya there
gongxia649
Don Juan
my number is 614 572 3343 my name is daniel.
i m going i want to see some true dj in action.
i m going i want to see some true dj in action.
"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
KingBeef
Master Don Juan
I was thinking for a sec if we wanted to hit some college bars in the village or on the upper east side from 86th to 96th street, but we'll kind a be over dressed for that and come to think of it, those bars are SO JAMMED PACK i don't think we'll all like get in LOL
KingBeef
Master Don Juan
if i'm not wrong, the dress code....club attire
BlackAccord
Don Juan
just make sure everyone has pm'ed me their contact info and we'll be set..dont pm me info anytime after 5:30! dress code should be set for a club scene as thats the kind of scene we'll most likely hit. ill update this with our most current list and our EXACT meeting spot in a second.
"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
BlackAccord
Don Juan
!!EXACT MEETING SPOT!!
Hoolihan's (only one in Penn Station)
Located in NYC Penn Station
8th ave side, toward 33 st side
100 yards from information desk
1 flight down from the street level
Right near the only public men's and ladies room on the floor.
7:45pm
Most Updated List
Blackaccord-Jeff-
LexDiamond20-Omari-
KingBeef-Jon-
ssj245-Hark-
rock-star_brian-Brian-
ABSoluteboxer-Kelvin-
afficax2-Fang-
gongxia649-Daniel-
yrock181-Yael-
Drum&Bass-No Contact Info, A Maybe
Hoolihan's (only one in Penn Station)
Located in NYC Penn Station
8th ave side, toward 33 st side
100 yards from information desk
1 flight down from the street level
Right near the only public men's and ladies room on the floor.
7:45pm
Most Updated List
Blackaccord-Jeff-
LexDiamond20-Omari-
KingBeef-Jon-
ssj245-Hark-
rock-star_brian-Brian-
ABSoluteboxer-Kelvin-
afficax2-Fang-
gongxia649-Daniel-
yrock181-Yael-
Drum&Bass-No Contact Info, A Maybe
lexdiamond20
Don Juan
Hey is anyone driving in from n. jersey? I think im gonna have to pay for parking and wondering if anyone would like to hitch a ride and split the pay.
gongxia649
Don Juan
can i have your phone number to contact you if i get lost.
gongxia649
Don Juan
im in new jersey but im not driving. its a good idea to have a share. im interested.lexdiamond20 said:Hey is anyone driving in from n. jersey? I think im gonna have to pay for parking and wondering if anyone would like to hitch a ride and split the pay.
"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.