"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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NYC Meeting! NJ, NY, PA, CT, NYC June 3rd, 2006 Get in here!

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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BlackAccord

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As of right now it's still on! Check back early afternoon in case there is a problem. Otherwise, I have all of your cell's and you should all have mine. And KingBeef, good post very very true.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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BlackAccord

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Hah no man, were sticking to public places the entire time, no exceptions. Feel free to bring a friend with you in case your worried.

Check back tomorrow early afternoon for exact place.

List thus far:
Blackaccord-Jeff w/ 3 friends
LexDiamond20-Omar
KingBeef-Jon
ssj245-Hark
rock-star_brian-Brian
ABSoluteboxer-Kelvin
afficax2-fang

Oh and post or msg me suggestions on where to go!
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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KingBeef

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I was thinking for a sec if we wanted to hit some college bars in the village or on the upper east side from 86th to 96th street, but we'll kind a be over dressed for that and come to think of it, those bars are SO JAMMED PACK i don't think we'll all like get in LOL
 

Drum&Bass

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Me and a couple of friends were suppose to hang out tonight theres also gonna be 1 or 2 girls with us, i'd be down to chill.
 

BlackAccord

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just make sure everyone has pm'ed me their contact info and we'll be set..dont pm me info anytime after 5:30! dress code should be set for a club scene as thats the kind of scene we'll most likely hit. ill update this with our most current list and our EXACT meeting spot in a second.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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BlackAccord

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!!EXACT MEETING SPOT!!

Hoolihan's (only one in Penn Station)
Located in NYC Penn Station
8th ave side, toward 33 st side
100 yards from information desk
1 flight down from the street level
Right near the only public men's and ladies room on the floor.
7:45pm


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Blackaccord-Jeff-
LexDiamond20-Omari-
KingBeef-Jon-
ssj245-Hark-
rock-star_brian-Brian-
ABSoluteboxer-Kelvin-
afficax2-Fang-
gongxia649-Daniel-
yrock181-Yael-
Drum&Bass-No Contact Info, A Maybe
 

lexdiamond20

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Hey is anyone driving in from n. jersey? I think im gonna have to pay for parking and wondering if anyone would like to hitch a ride and split the pay.
 

gongxia649

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lexdiamond20 said:
Hey is anyone driving in from n. jersey? I think im gonna have to pay for parking and wondering if anyone would like to hitch a ride and split the pay.
im in new jersey but im not driving. its a good idea to have a share. im interested.
 

bakaten

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the queens trains are running slow from the rain/flood incident i will try my best to be there at 7:45
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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