"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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NYC Meeting! NJ, NY, PA, CT, NYC June 3rd, 2006 Get in here!

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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BlackAccord

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As of right now it's still on! Check back early afternoon in case there is a problem. Otherwise, I have all of your cell's and you should all have mine. And KingBeef, good post very very true.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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BlackAccord

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Hah no man, were sticking to public places the entire time, no exceptions. Feel free to bring a friend with you in case your worried.

Check back tomorrow early afternoon for exact place.

List thus far:
Blackaccord-Jeff w/ 3 friends
LexDiamond20-Omar
KingBeef-Jon
ssj245-Hark
rock-star_brian-Brian
ABSoluteboxer-Kelvin
afficax2-fang

Oh and post or msg me suggestions on where to go!
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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KingBeef

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I was thinking for a sec if we wanted to hit some college bars in the village or on the upper east side from 86th to 96th street, but we'll kind a be over dressed for that and come to think of it, those bars are SO JAMMED PACK i don't think we'll all like get in LOL
 

Drum&Bass

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Me and a couple of friends were suppose to hang out tonight theres also gonna be 1 or 2 girls with us, i'd be down to chill.
 

BlackAccord

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just make sure everyone has pm'ed me their contact info and we'll be set..dont pm me info anytime after 5:30! dress code should be set for a club scene as thats the kind of scene we'll most likely hit. ill update this with our most current list and our EXACT meeting spot in a second.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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BlackAccord

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!!EXACT MEETING SPOT!!

Hoolihan's (only one in Penn Station)
Located in NYC Penn Station
8th ave side, toward 33 st side
100 yards from information desk
1 flight down from the street level
Right near the only public men's and ladies room on the floor.
7:45pm


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Blackaccord-Jeff-
LexDiamond20-Omari-
KingBeef-Jon-
ssj245-Hark-
rock-star_brian-Brian-
ABSoluteboxer-Kelvin-
afficax2-Fang-
gongxia649-Daniel-
yrock181-Yael-
Drum&Bass-No Contact Info, A Maybe
 

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Hey is anyone driving in from n. jersey? I think im gonna have to pay for parking and wondering if anyone would like to hitch a ride and split the pay.
 

gongxia649

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lexdiamond20 said:
Hey is anyone driving in from n. jersey? I think im gonna have to pay for parking and wondering if anyone would like to hitch a ride and split the pay.
im in new jersey but im not driving. its a good idea to have a share. im interested.
 

bakaten

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the queens trains are running slow from the rain/flood incident i will try my best to be there at 7:45
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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