"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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NYC is the best place for a DJ

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Hands down the best city to run game and meet attractive single women. I think if any single guy has the chance to move here he should.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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captain55 said:
Hands down the best city to run game and meet attractive single women. I think if any single guy has the chance to move here he should.
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Agreed. I used to live there and now LA is a-lot more difficult logistically. Everything in NYC is right there. I actually may move back there one day, lol.
 
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I don't always get girls but I can't ever say that the market isn't fantastic
 
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True. I am in Jersey, about 30 minutes from the city. The hottest girls I have met through online dating all lived in the city. I am talking HB8's and up.
 
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Isn’t it somewhat rigged toward very rich guys? It seems like the average joe wouldn’t do well there since he is competing against investment bankers and hedge fund managers. Not to mention a drink costs $20 there lol
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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captain55 said:
Hands down the best city to run game and meet attractive single women. I think if any single guy has the chance to move here he should.
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Best city to earn 80K and be broke in and forced to live with 2 roommates too.
 
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Best city to earn 80K and be broke in and forced to live with 2 roommates too.
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I personally know a guy in NYC who will agree with this. He moved from Central Illinois (not Chicago) to NYC. He makes ~100k in NYC in I.T. and said he had no idea he could ever make ~100k and be so poor. He lives in a nice place but shares it with 2-3 other guys and says its more like college than living as an individual adult. In Central Illinois 100k will put you in the rich folk neighborhood, maybe even a 'gated community' if that's your thing. NYC is somewhere I would like to visit to see what its all about.
 
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skinnyguy said:
Isn’t it somewhat rigged toward very rich guys? It seems like the average joe wouldn’t do well there since he is competing against investment bankers and hedge fund managers. Not to mention a drink costs $20 there lol
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Nah I'm pretty much broke and I get laid. I get most of my women in Brooklyn which is where I live. You will obviously have an easier time if you're rich though. Every chick here is looking for a come up.
 
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logicallefty said:
I personally know a guy in NYC who will agree with this. He moved from Central Illinois (not Chicago) to NYC. He makes ~100k in NYC in I.T. and said he had no idea he could ever make ~100k and be so poor. He lives in a nice place but shares it with 2-3 other guys and says its more like college than living as an individual adult. In Central Illinois 100k will put you in the rich folk neighborhood, maybe even a 'gated community' if that's your thing. NYC is somewhere I would like to visit to see what its all about.
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It depends where you live in NYC. I make way less than 100k and have no problems. The further you are from Manhattan the cheaper it gets.
 
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Average income in Manhattan is close to 200k annual and average condo price is 2 mil. But many NY'ers don't live in Manhattan.

Yes, NYC got more hot women than you know what to do with.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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marmel75 said:
Best city to earn 80K and be broke in and forced to live with 2 roommates too.
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logicallefty said:
I personally know a guy in NYC who will agree with this. He moved from Central Illinois (not Chicago) to NYC. He makes ~100k in NYC in I.T. and said he had no idea he could ever make ~100k and be so poor. He lives in a nice place but shares it with 2-3 other guys and says its more like college than living as an individual adult. In Central Illinois 100k will put you in the rich folk neighborhood, maybe even a 'gated community' if that's your thing. NYC is somewhere I would like to visit to see what its all about.
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the trick is not trying to live in some fancy neighborhood like chelsea with $3000 a month apartments
 
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Agree with this, as an English man in New York, I have them at Hello
 
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