"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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NYC is the best place for a DJ

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Hands down the best city to run game and meet attractive single women. I think if any single guy has the chance to move here he should.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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captain55 said:
Hands down the best city to run game and meet attractive single women. I think if any single guy has the chance to move here he should.
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Agreed. I used to live there and now LA is a-lot more difficult logistically. Everything in NYC is right there. I actually may move back there one day, lol.
 
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I don't always get girls but I can't ever say that the market isn't fantastic
 
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True. I am in Jersey, about 30 minutes from the city. The hottest girls I have met through online dating all lived in the city. I am talking HB8's and up.
 
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Isn’t it somewhat rigged toward very rich guys? It seems like the average joe wouldn’t do well there since he is competing against investment bankers and hedge fund managers. Not to mention a drink costs $20 there lol
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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captain55 said:
Hands down the best city to run game and meet attractive single women. I think if any single guy has the chance to move here he should.
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Best city to earn 80K and be broke in and forced to live with 2 roommates too.
 
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Best city to earn 80K and be broke in and forced to live with 2 roommates too.
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I personally know a guy in NYC who will agree with this. He moved from Central Illinois (not Chicago) to NYC. He makes ~100k in NYC in I.T. and said he had no idea he could ever make ~100k and be so poor. He lives in a nice place but shares it with 2-3 other guys and says its more like college than living as an individual adult. In Central Illinois 100k will put you in the rich folk neighborhood, maybe even a 'gated community' if that's your thing. NYC is somewhere I would like to visit to see what its all about.
 
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skinnyguy said:
Isn’t it somewhat rigged toward very rich guys? It seems like the average joe wouldn’t do well there since he is competing against investment bankers and hedge fund managers. Not to mention a drink costs $20 there lol
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Nah I'm pretty much broke and I get laid. I get most of my women in Brooklyn which is where I live. You will obviously have an easier time if you're rich though. Every chick here is looking for a come up.
 
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logicallefty said:
I personally know a guy in NYC who will agree with this. He moved from Central Illinois (not Chicago) to NYC. He makes ~100k in NYC in I.T. and said he had no idea he could ever make ~100k and be so poor. He lives in a nice place but shares it with 2-3 other guys and says its more like college than living as an individual adult. In Central Illinois 100k will put you in the rich folk neighborhood, maybe even a 'gated community' if that's your thing. NYC is somewhere I would like to visit to see what its all about.
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It depends where you live in NYC. I make way less than 100k and have no problems. The further you are from Manhattan the cheaper it gets.
 
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Average income in Manhattan is close to 200k annual and average condo price is 2 mil. But many NY'ers don't live in Manhattan.

Yes, NYC got more hot women than you know what to do with.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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marmel75 said:
Best city to earn 80K and be broke in and forced to live with 2 roommates too.
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logicallefty said:
I personally know a guy in NYC who will agree with this. He moved from Central Illinois (not Chicago) to NYC. He makes ~100k in NYC in I.T. and said he had no idea he could ever make ~100k and be so poor. He lives in a nice place but shares it with 2-3 other guys and says its more like college than living as an individual adult. In Central Illinois 100k will put you in the rich folk neighborhood, maybe even a 'gated community' if that's your thing. NYC is somewhere I would like to visit to see what its all about.
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the trick is not trying to live in some fancy neighborhood like chelsea with $3000 a month apartments
 
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Agree with this, as an English man in New York, I have them at Hello
 
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