"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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now THIS is the ultimate AFC example

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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That poor kid, someone needs to hire a striper for him, on his birthday.
 

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I can relate to this kid's story.

My step-dad bought me a "chastity ring" for my 16th birthday, making me promise I would not have sex before marriage. (My folks are religious nuts)

At first girls actually thought it was sexy and wanted to be the first to break me in... but it was worthless. My whole life I'd been brainwashed by religion and believed that getting laid without a marriage certificate would earn me a one-way ticket to the Lake of Fire.

This is really tough to break away from.. life needs to b!tch slap you pretty hard before you break free.

Fortunately I snapped out of it a few months later when I was in a car accident and went into a short coma. I woke up a changed man and realized what a crock of sh!t I'd been fed my whole life.

My heart really goes out to youngsters in this situation.

Someone should find that guy and send him a link to this place
 

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I feel it is our responsibility to find out where these guys live, invade their home, tie up the father in a chair, tie the son to a bed, and make the father watch as 20 hot hookers fvck the shyt out of the son, all night long.

While that's happening, we will have a team of DJ drill sargents with bull horns surrounding the father, grilling him about what he has done to his daughter/son.

:crackup: :crackup: :crackup:
 

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Rollo Tomassi said:
You know what scares me the most about this? Not that the father thinks he's doing his son a favor. Not that what he's done is essentially turn his son into a completely emasculated gender reversal. Not that he and his father think the whole arrangement is what men "should" do if they're real men. None of that.

What scares me most is the girl who comes along, has the whole twisted thing explained to her and still says "aww, that's so sweet" instead of running away in terror. The girl even more twisted than these two, THAT scares me.

its *ssholes like that dad that contribute to women thinking that they are the prize.

you've said it RT, and i'll say it a million times, women only behave the way they do cuz men let them get away with it. heck, men even encourage it.

id like to know where the mother is in all this. i bet you when no one is looking she is shaking her head thinking 'my god, he's turning out son into a woman.' but i also bet that she can't stop it because she probably leverages the fathers AFCdom to her own advantage. for her to come out and tell him 'you are filling our sons head with ridiculous ideas. he's going to end up getting taken to the cleaners like I've taken you to the cleaners' is not in her own best interest.

so this poor kid has two parents filling his head will utter bullsh*t about how the world works.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Is it a coincidence that the key is shaped like a dong, and the heart, an ass. Daddy's ass? On top of this his last name is D!ckson. D!ck . . . Son?

Thith ith Bruthe, who made a very speathal promith to daddy

"When I was about 13, my dad gave me this golden penis to where around my neck. It symbolizes that there is no woman for me. Daddy wears the butthold. That's his butthole. The neclase was actually molded from daddy's ass. Here's how they fit together." :crackup:
 

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joekerr31 said:
id like to know where the mother is in all this.
yes, where is dear old mom in all this?
where are all the mothers now a days?
there is a very big difference in a mother saying "if my son is a queer, i will still love him for he is still my son" than this monstrosity! allowing your son to be turned into a fag, not of his own will, brainwashed by his father while you either turn a blind eye or hide in a corner is outrageous!
why hasn't she stepped up to the plate to defend her son years ago?
why does she let the madness continue?

is she a part of this, or too scared to speak up?

i would rather have an absent father for my children than have one that brainwashes them day by day.
 

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This is absolute material for south park. Can you imagine what those guys could do with some shyt like this.

Bruce Pvssyson
 

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If the guy is indeed really religious, they tend to live in their own little world. He will probably find some chick in the church who is just as naive as he is, and they will live naive-ly ever after. You guys are picking on an easy target!
 
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Men have become as women, and women as men! It is the woman who should keep her womb clean for her husband - and vow to be a virgin until marriage - as is done in other countries and which has been the standard since the beginning!!

What this idiot is not considering is that there will be a small to no pickings for him to marry a woman with the same determination as his - to keep her virginity!! The pretty, slim ones won't be available in their virgin state, with a surety! He is going to end up marrying a porno ho!!!
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Last Man Standing said:
What this idiot is not considering is that there will be a small to no pickings for him to marry a woman with the same determination as his - to keep her virginity!! The pretty, slim ones won't be available in their virgin state, with a surety!
The father knows this. He is setting up his boy to fail, so he can keep tat'n dat azz :crackup:

Can you imagine the twisted little ceremony they'll have when he finally meets the girl. Just the three of them, real intimate. ANd the dad gives the necklace with his speech.
 

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Yeah it's pretty obvious this "chasity card" and basically being like a girl thing that the boy and father played didn't help him at all. It might work for a female, but no one holds a man in any esteem unless he's fvcking girls. Basically a man's worth is limited to how much money and power he has and what kinmd of women he gets.
 

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ketostix said:
...no one holds a man in any esteem unless he's fvcking girls. Basically a man's worth is limited to how much money and power he has and what kind of women he gets.
Why do we even need this site? Let's all give up. :rock:
 

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Why do we even need this site? Let's all give up. :rock:
this site is needed to promote healthy self growth for starters.
this site is needed desperately for the kids out there just like him.
you can see it in the boys eyes, that he does not want to end up how his father wants him to end up.
his father is all about control, and he hasn't found a place like this to help him come out of his shell and learn to control himself , where he will not need his father to make his own choices.
 

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ketostix said:
... Basically a man's worth is limited to how much money and power he has and what kinmd of women he gets.
Is that all that there is to you? :confused:
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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I was being sarcastic. I just didn't like the defeatist attitude.

Hell I'm almost twice his that kid's age and I need this place. Of course I didn't have his problems back then and already had found the right one at the age of 15 (more sarcasm). But maybe I should have waited, lol. You can get messed up if you have sex too young and aren't emotionally mature.

This kid will break out of it.
 

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Francisco d'Anconia said:
Is that all that there is to you? :confused:

I don't understand your question. It wasn't about what I think it's about human nature. And if you think a man with no money and no women has any value in this society, then I don't know what to tell you. Just go out in public with say a 21 year old girl that's extremely attractive and see if people don't think you're the "man". This is just common sense.
 

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that was painful to read. Not everything is black and white, on or off.
 

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ketostix said:
Just go out in public with say a 21 year old girl that's extremely attractive and see if people don't think you're the "man". This is just common sense.
This is senseLESS, keto.

Come on, man.

Anyone who thinks you are "the man" just because you are walking with an attractive 21 year old is an IDIOT.

You act like "going out in public (!)" with an attractive girl is some huge feat. I'm starting to wonder about you for REAL now.
 

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reset said:
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that was painful to read. Not everything is black and white, on or off.

Actually women do operate in a black and white schema to a very large degree. What's painful about realizing that, especially with women, status and competition and jealousy are some of the most powerful motivators for attraction?

When you watch the video and this guy says, I never kissed a girl..I'm waiting for marriage..bla blah you could just see the panel lose all respect for him and they actually had contempt for him.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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