Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
This is from a time when most women stayed at home and didn't work so they had all day to accomplish these things.This was the advise to women in the past to be high value women.
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Basically what most of us guys look for in a girl to be lady of high value. What do you think?
A lot of women still stay at home during the first few years of their kids, at least here. From what i have seen, most cant accomplish half of the things listed above, if anything at all on a daily basis.This is from a time when most women stayed at home and didn't work so they had all day to accomplish these things.
Most guys now want the same thing but that she also works a full time job as well. That's never happening.
You get one or the other not both.
I agree with this. Maybe its better to have a girl who just passes the boner test but gives you mental peace than a super hot girl who makes your life harder than your d1ck.I am not saying one cant find a gold nugget out there, but it wont be the 8s and 9s people are drooling over.
You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.
I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.
Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.
These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.
Advice from the old lady:This was the advise to women in the past to be high value women.
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Thats what SHE says......In all honesty, that doesn’t sound like a wife. That sounds like a maid / slave.
If I had a wife, I wouldn’t tell her to cook or clean. I would hire someone to do that. I would take her out every night. Treated like a Queen.
A man just wants a wife to give birth to healthy child, some companionship, someone to travel with, get invited to couples parties. and some sex. Even sex isn’t that important. Once a month would be more than enough.
Sounds like you put women on a pedestal.If I had a wife, I wouldn’t tell her to cook or clean. I would hire someone to do that. I would take her out every night. Treated like a Queen.
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.