I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
This is from a time when most women stayed at home and didn't work so they had all day to accomplish these things.This was the advise to women in the past to be high value women.
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Basically what most of us guys look for in a girl to be lady of high value. What do you think?
A lot of women still stay at home during the first few years of their kids, at least here. From what i have seen, most cant accomplish half of the things listed above, if anything at all on a daily basis.This is from a time when most women stayed at home and didn't work so they had all day to accomplish these things.
Most guys now want the same thing but that she also works a full time job as well. That's never happening.
You get one or the other not both.
I agree with this. Maybe its better to have a girl who just passes the boner test but gives you mental peace than a super hot girl who makes your life harder than your d1ck.I am not saying one cant find a gold nugget out there, but it wont be the 8s and 9s people are drooling over.
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.
Advice from the old lady:This was the advise to women in the past to be high value women.
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Thats what SHE says......In all honesty, that doesn’t sound like a wife. That sounds like a maid / slave.
If I had a wife, I wouldn’t tell her to cook or clean. I would hire someone to do that. I would take her out every night. Treated like a Queen.
A man just wants a wife to give birth to healthy child, some companionship, someone to travel with, get invited to couples parties. and some sex. Even sex isn’t that important. Once a month would be more than enough.
Sounds like you put women on a pedestal.If I had a wife, I wouldn’t tell her to cook or clean. I would hire someone to do that. I would take her out every night. Treated like a Queen.
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.