"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Now and then..

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Being married to a woman like this would be a good deal for a lot of men. The problem is that now most married woman aren't following much of this. I also think men would lean more into their masculine if they could get trad wives like these.

It'd be interesting to see what a "Home Economics Book" from circa 1950 would advise women to do in order to get a husband so that they could follow the next set of tips to look after their husband. Tips for looking after a husband are irrelevant if a woman can't get a husband initially.
 

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This was the advise to women in the past to be high value women.
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Basically what most of us guys look for in a girl to be lady of high value. What do you think?
This is from a time when most women stayed at home and didn't work so they had all day to accomplish these things.

Most guys now want the same thing but that she also works a full time job as well. That's never happening.

You get one or the other not both.
 

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This is from a time when most women stayed at home and didn't work so they had all day to accomplish these things.

Most guys now want the same thing but that she also works a full time job as well. That's never happening.

You get one or the other not both.
A lot of women still stay at home during the first few years of their kids, at least here. From what i have seen, most cant accomplish half of the things listed above, if anything at all on a daily basis.

It doesnt matter how much time you give a typical "western woman", she is never going to be a traditional woman and yet demanding/"deserving" a traditional man.

I am not saying one cant find a gold nugget out there, but it wont be the 8s and 9s people are drooling over.
 

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I am not saying one cant find a gold nugget out there, but it wont be the 8s and 9s people are drooling over.
I agree with this. Maybe its better to have a girl who just passes the boner test but gives you mental peace than a super hot girl who makes your life harder than your d1ck.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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In the modern era this can be applied to both sexes here and there. Women have jobs too and other responsibilities. That said the advice found in that article looks to create a healthy home environment. Regardless of what went on in the man or woman's day you should greet your spouse positively and not nag/complain to them upon getting home.
 

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This was the advise to women in the past to be high value women.
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Basically what most of us guys look for in a girl to be lady of high value. What do you think?
Advice from the old lady:

This remains excellent advice. I will share this with my daughter in law if my son marries her. That’s how I want my son to be treated by his wife. Marriages like this are foundationally good.

Now. These 1950s women were full time wives & mothers typically too, meaning the man made all the money and the wife was home raising children. So the wife was financially taken care of during this era.

Classy affluent families still run this way even in today’s day & age. It’s a status thing now to afford your wife to be at home full time. Even older men with means often prefer a “kept” woman. Then she is at his beck & call, free to travel with him or assist him, especially if he’s retired. She only has to serve one master: him.
 

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In all honesty, that doesn’t sound like a wife. That sounds like a maid / slave.

If I had a wife, I wouldn’t tell her to cook or clean. I would hire someone to do that. I would take her out every night. Treated like a Queen.

A man just wants a wife to give birth to healthy child, some companionship, someone to travel with, get invited to couples parties. and some sex. Even sex isn’t that important. Once a month would be more than enough.
 

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In all honesty, that doesn’t sound like a wife. That sounds like a maid / slave.

If I had a wife, I wouldn’t tell her to cook or clean. I would hire someone to do that. I would take her out every night. Treated like a Queen.

A man just wants a wife to give birth to healthy child, some companionship, someone to travel with, get invited to couples parties. and some sex. Even sex isn’t that important. Once a month would be more than enough.
Thats what SHE says......
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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