So i have this girl who's a really good friend of mine. She's pretty much one of the guys, and it's great because she gives very good insight into the minds of women. Anyway, last night her and i and a couple of friends were hanging out drinking, and she was talking about how with girls, it's all about validation. She was saying girls will always feel like they're not good enough, despite how they act. Anyway, she was saying that by telling a girl that she's not your type, it makes her want to spend the rest of the night trying to prove that she could be your type. Just wanted to hear some feedback on this.
"She's Out of Your League"
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
Not your type
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"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
Haha this is classic line. I actually used to use this line a lot. And yes, in theory, by telling a girl that she's not ur type, you are disqualifying her. Depending on what kind of girl she is, she will either think your a jerk and drop you, or she'll try harder to prove herself.
In my opinion, this line is a little insulting, so make sure to say it a funny way. That way it comes off C&F. I don't really use this line anymore, but I use the IDEA behind it a lot. You can accomplish the same meaning by doing things like not returning her calls, talking more to her friends when everyones out, or telling her that she makes a great friend. If you know anything about attraction, doing this with some flirtation works wonders.
In my opinion, this line is a little insulting, so make sure to say it a funny way. That way it comes off C&F. I don't really use this line anymore, but I use the IDEA behind it a lot. You can accomplish the same meaning by doing things like not returning her calls, talking more to her friends when everyones out, or telling her that she makes a great friend. If you know anything about attraction, doing this with some flirtation works wonders.
ya its a disqualifyer neg..............interesting side note when U do make a move.........they all say "HEY I THOUGHT I WASN'T YOUR TYPE"
it doesnt always make a girl chase you more..........it does put the attraction wheels in motion though. Push/pull psychology at its best.
From a guys perspective...........when a chic says that to us..........we all want to know instantly "whats your type". This is a great opportunity to bust on them with "YA U SEEM LIKE A MAGNET FOR PATHETIC LOSERS........DRAMA QUEEN, not sure U could handle a nice guy for a change" hows your type working out for ya.
it doesnt always make a girl chase you more..........it does put the attraction wheels in motion though. Push/pull psychology at its best.
From a guys perspective...........when a chic says that to us..........we all want to know instantly "whats your type". This is a great opportunity to bust on them with "YA U SEEM LIKE A MAGNET FOR PATHETIC LOSERS........DRAMA QUEEN, not sure U could handle a nice guy for a change" hows your type working out for ya.
"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.