So i have this girl who's a really good friend of mine. She's pretty much one of the guys, and it's great because she gives very good insight into the minds of women. Anyway, last night her and i and a couple of friends were hanging out drinking, and she was talking about how with girls, it's all about validation. She was saying girls will always feel like they're not good enough, despite how they act. Anyway, she was saying that by telling a girl that she's not your type, it makes her want to spend the rest of the night trying to prove that she could be your type. Just wanted to hear some feedback on this.
"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
Not your type
- Thread starter Biggie
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