"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Biggie

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So i have this girl who's a really good friend of mine. She's pretty much one of the guys, and it's great because she gives very good insight into the minds of women. Anyway, last night her and i and a couple of friends were hanging out drinking, and she was talking about how with girls, it's all about validation. She was saying girls will always feel like they're not good enough, despite how they act. Anyway, she was saying that by telling a girl that she's not your type, it makes her want to spend the rest of the night trying to prove that she could be your type. Just wanted to hear some feedback on this.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Conquer

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I think its true to a point. I personally would never tell a women that i was interested in that she was not my type.
 
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Haha this is classic line. I actually used to use this line a lot. And yes, in theory, by telling a girl that she's not ur type, you are disqualifying her. Depending on what kind of girl she is, she will either think your a jerk and drop you, or she'll try harder to prove herself.

In my opinion, this line is a little insulting, so make sure to say it a funny way. That way it comes off C&F. I don't really use this line anymore, but I use the IDEA behind it a lot. You can accomplish the same meaning by doing things like not returning her calls, talking more to her friends when everyones out, or telling her that she makes a great friend. If you know anything about attraction, doing this with some flirtation works wonders.
 
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ya its a disqualifyer neg..............interesting side note when U do make a move.........they all say "HEY I THOUGHT I WASN'T YOUR TYPE"

it doesnt always make a girl chase you more..........it does put the attraction wheels in motion though. Push/pull psychology at its best.

From a guys perspective...........when a chic says that to us..........we all want to know instantly "whats your type". This is a great opportunity to bust on them with "YA U SEEM LIKE A MAGNET FOR PATHETIC LOSERS........DRAMA QUEEN, not sure U could handle a nice guy for a change" hows your type working out for ya.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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If she has self esteem issues, there is no way she is going to try to prove you wrong, but if she is confident she will try to prove you wrong.
 
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