Not your type

[Biggie]

So i have this girl who's a really good friend of mine. She's pretty much one of the guys, and it's great because she gives very good insight into the minds of women. Anyway, last night her and i and a couple of friends were hanging out drinking, and she was talking about how with girls, it's all about validation. She was saying girls will always feel like they're not good enough, despite how they act. Anyway, she was saying that by telling a girl that she's not your type, it makes her want to spend the rest of the night trying to prove that she could be your type. Just wanted to hear some feedback on this.

 

[Biggie]

Any comments?

 

[Conquer]

I think its true to a point. I personally would never tell a women that i was interested in that she was not my type.

 

[Sandow]

Haha this is classic line. I actually used to use this line a lot. And yes, in theory, by telling a girl that she's not ur type, you are disqualifying her. Depending on what kind of girl she is, she will either think your a jerk and drop you, or she'll try harder to prove herself.

In my opinion, this line is a little insulting, so make sure to say it a funny way. That way it comes off C&F. I don't really use this line anymore, but I use the IDEA behind it a lot. You can accomplish the same meaning by doing things like not returning her calls, talking more to her friends when everyones out, or telling her that she makes a great friend. If you know anything about attraction, doing this with some flirtation works wonders.

 

[COD]

ya its a disqualifyer neg..............interesting side note when U do make a move.........they all say "HEY I THOUGHT I WASN'T YOUR TYPE"

it doesnt always make a girl chase you more..........it does put the attraction wheels in motion though. Push/pull psychology at its best.

From a guys perspective...........when a chic says that to us..........we all want to know instantly "whats your type". This is a great opportunity to bust on them with "YA U SEEM LIKE A MAGNET FOR PATHETIC LOSERS........DRAMA QUEEN, not sure U could handle a nice guy for a change" hows your type working out for ya.

 

[Cinamon]

If she has self esteem issues, there is no way she is going to try to prove you wrong, but if she is confident she will try to prove you wrong.