claudolfgeorgini
Don Juan
- Joined
- Oct 15, 2017
- Messages
- 165
- Reaction score
- 108
- Age
- 33
Everyone keep in mind that she was checking him out.
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
And so what?.?. Anything is better than inaction, imo. At least there's a lesson in action, even if it means failing. Often, the line between success and failure is commitment. Just about any Joe Blow can commit to action and succeed equally as well, especially if he's got LMS in his corner to help pull some weight. Lots of variables to be considered. The only variable that shuts all the speculation down is unwillingness or inaction.Right. Easy for me to say that marmel is full of sh1t, but the reactions from the female in the story justified everything he did. Social intelligence.
Still think it's good to show temperance. For the young bucks that might be reading this.
Guys need to spend a lot of time around women before they could pull off what marmel did, and even then it might end up bad.
Just being a realist.
Nice. Let us know what you texted her. The devil's in the detailsSmall update...
I shot her a text a little while ago and she texted me back almost immediately and after a couple of basic texts back and forth she said:
"I'm not sure why, but I havent been able to get that comment you said out of my mind. It was so rude but I kinda liked it?? Weird right?"
Have a date set up for Tuesday...I told her to wear some tight yoga pants...she said she would...
Personally now that the sex part is out there, you don’t need to be super aggressive about it. Escalate like usual. I have a feeling If you push it too fast you blow her out, but I’m not a master yet. 100% BJ, 50/50 on sex, 5% buttstuffSmall update...
I shot her a text a little while ago and she texted me back almost immediately and after a couple of basic texts back and forth she said:
"I'm not sure why, but I havent been able to get that comment you said out of my mind. It was so rude but I kinda liked it?? Weird right?"
Have a date set up for Tuesday...I told her to wear some tight yoga pants...she said she would...
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.