claudolfgeorgini
Don Juan
- Joined
- Oct 15, 2017
- Messages
- 165
- Reaction score
- 108
- Age
- 33
Everyone keep in mind that she was checking him out.
She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.
You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.
The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
And so what?.?. Anything is better than inaction, imo. At least there's a lesson in action, even if it means failing. Often, the line between success and failure is commitment. Just about any Joe Blow can commit to action and succeed equally as well, especially if he's got LMS in his corner to help pull some weight. Lots of variables to be considered. The only variable that shuts all the speculation down is unwillingness or inaction.Right. Easy for me to say that marmel is full of sh1t, but the reactions from the female in the story justified everything he did. Social intelligence.
Still think it's good to show temperance. For the young bucks that might be reading this.
Guys need to spend a lot of time around women before they could pull off what marmel did, and even then it might end up bad.
Just being a realist.
Nice. Let us know what you texted her. The devil's in the detailsSmall update...
I shot her a text a little while ago and she texted me back almost immediately and after a couple of basic texts back and forth she said:
"I'm not sure why, but I havent been able to get that comment you said out of my mind. It was so rude but I kinda liked it?? Weird right?"
Have a date set up for Tuesday...I told her to wear some tight yoga pants...she said she would...
Personally now that the sex part is out there, you don’t need to be super aggressive about it. Escalate like usual. I have a feeling If you push it too fast you blow her out, but I’m not a master yet. 100% BJ, 50/50 on sex, 5% buttstuffSmall update...
I shot her a text a little while ago and she texted me back almost immediately and after a couple of basic texts back and forth she said:
"I'm not sure why, but I havent been able to get that comment you said out of my mind. It was so rude but I kinda liked it?? Weird right?"
Have a date set up for Tuesday...I told her to wear some tight yoga pants...she said she would...
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.