claudolfgeorgini
Don Juan
- Joined
- Oct 15, 2017
- Messages
- 165
- Reaction score
- 108
- Age
- 33
Everyone keep in mind that she was checking him out.
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
And so what?.?. Anything is better than inaction, imo. At least there's a lesson in action, even if it means failing. Often, the line between success and failure is commitment. Just about any Joe Blow can commit to action and succeed equally as well, especially if he's got LMS in his corner to help pull some weight. Lots of variables to be considered. The only variable that shuts all the speculation down is unwillingness or inaction.Right. Easy for me to say that marmel is full of sh1t, but the reactions from the female in the story justified everything he did. Social intelligence.
Still think it's good to show temperance. For the young bucks that might be reading this.
Guys need to spend a lot of time around women before they could pull off what marmel did, and even then it might end up bad.
Just being a realist.
Nice. Let us know what you texted her. The devil's in the detailsSmall update...
I shot her a text a little while ago and she texted me back almost immediately and after a couple of basic texts back and forth she said:
"I'm not sure why, but I havent been able to get that comment you said out of my mind. It was so rude but I kinda liked it?? Weird right?"
Have a date set up for Tuesday...I told her to wear some tight yoga pants...she said she would...
Personally now that the sex part is out there, you don’t need to be super aggressive about it. Escalate like usual. I have a feeling If you push it too fast you blow her out, but I’m not a master yet. 100% BJ, 50/50 on sex, 5% buttstuffSmall update...
I shot her a text a little while ago and she texted me back almost immediately and after a couple of basic texts back and forth she said:
"I'm not sure why, but I havent been able to get that comment you said out of my mind. It was so rude but I kinda liked it?? Weird right?"
Have a date set up for Tuesday...I told her to wear some tight yoga pants...she said she would...
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.