claudolfgeorgini
Don Juan
- Joined
- Oct 15, 2017
- Messages
- 165
- Reaction score
- 108
- Age
- 33
Everyone keep in mind that she was checking him out.
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
And so what?.?. Anything is better than inaction, imo. At least there's a lesson in action, even if it means failing. Often, the line between success and failure is commitment. Just about any Joe Blow can commit to action and succeed equally as well, especially if he's got LMS in his corner to help pull some weight. Lots of variables to be considered. The only variable that shuts all the speculation down is unwillingness or inaction.Right. Easy for me to say that marmel is full of sh1t, but the reactions from the female in the story justified everything he did. Social intelligence.
Still think it's good to show temperance. For the young bucks that might be reading this.
Guys need to spend a lot of time around women before they could pull off what marmel did, and even then it might end up bad.
Just being a realist.
Nice. Let us know what you texted her. The devil's in the detailsSmall update...
I shot her a text a little while ago and she texted me back almost immediately and after a couple of basic texts back and forth she said:
"I'm not sure why, but I havent been able to get that comment you said out of my mind. It was so rude but I kinda liked it?? Weird right?"
Have a date set up for Tuesday...I told her to wear some tight yoga pants...she said she would...
Personally now that the sex part is out there, you don’t need to be super aggressive about it. Escalate like usual. I have a feeling If you push it too fast you blow her out, but I’m not a master yet. 100% BJ, 50/50 on sex, 5% buttstuffSmall update...
I shot her a text a little while ago and she texted me back almost immediately and after a couple of basic texts back and forth she said:
"I'm not sure why, but I havent been able to get that comment you said out of my mind. It was so rude but I kinda liked it?? Weird right?"
Have a date set up for Tuesday...I told her to wear some tight yoga pants...she said she would...
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.