I had to restart on June 11th. So 6 days no fap now. I haven't had sechs since may so it has been hard (no pun intended).You can do it man!!! Stay strong! Go out and approach!
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
I had to restart on June 11th. So 6 days no fap now. I haven't had sechs since may so it has been hard (no pun intended).You can do it man!!! Stay strong! Go out and approach!
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
Keep going! I got the kiss of death last night but I kinda saw it coming and she aint my type anyways. That 18 year old sounded delicious though!Okay boys. FVCKING BLUE BALLS AGAIN. Had two dates. One last night and one tonight.
DATE 1
The one last night was with a s3xy asian girl and all we did was make out, she straddled me, and she touched my d1ck. Her a$$ was absolutely phenomenal. But she didn't get me to ***. Even though I came a bit anyways because of the noFap. she was cool, and i had some fun.
DATE 2
Tonight I had a date with a really good looking 18 year old russian, who was tall (same height as me), blue eyed, and blonde haired. I told her to wear a sun dress and she said "I will wear what ever you want boss." We meet up and the date was AMAZING. She is fvcking awesome. Really cool, really funny, and has interesting things to say. /usually it is just me making the date interesting, but she actually contributed to it being awesome.
We start making out and she is beautiful up close. We get into my car and we start making out a lot. She straddles me, start sucking my thumb and grabbing my d1ck. I then start to choke her and she grabs my wrist to make me choke harder, and I make her call me daddy. UNFORTUNATELY SHE DIDNT MAKE ME ***. I tried fellas I really tried to fvck or get bj or something. So once again no *****. But my god she is beautiful, a silky, and aaaaaahhhhhhhh!
DAY FVCKING 19 FVCKKKKKKK
Depending where from, Eastern Europeans and Russians have this kind of unwritten rule, like they really will make you wait three or four dates, as a kind of mild test. They know that the tension will just intensify the experience exponentially.DATE 2
Tonight I had a date with a really good looking 18 year old russian, who was tall (same height as me), blue eyed, and blonde haired. I told her to wear a sun dress and she said "I will wear what ever you want boss." We meet up and the date was AMAZING. She is fvcking awesome. Really cool, really funny, and has interesting things to say. /usually it is just me making the date interesting, but she actually contributed to it being awesome.
We start making out and she is beautiful up close. We get into my car and we start making out a lot. She straddles me, start sucking my thumb and grabbing my d1ck. I then start to choke her and she grabs my wrist to make me choke harder, and I make her call me daddy. UNFORTUNATELY SHE DIDNT MAKE ME ***. I tried fellas I really tried to fvck or get bj or something. So once again no *****. But my god she is beautiful, a silky, and aaaaaahhhhhhhh!
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
That is good to know. I am used to sleeping with middle eastern chicks who, in my experience, give out pretty easy. I like the challenge that she is giving me. However I fear that because of nofap I will cvm before I fvck her. I swear if she puts my d1ck in her mouth its over. I came a little bit last night just from her sucking my thumb. But, I'm not giving up boys. Day 19.Depending where from, Eastern Europeans and Russians have this kind of unwritten rule, like they really will make you wait three or four dates, as a kind of mild test. They know that the tension will just intensify the experience exponentially.
But almost like clockwork it will usually certainly happen on date 3/4. And those chicks really are worth the wait. Dated this Lithuanian chick a few years ago; man she was so beautiful and feminine in both body and mind. Wish I'd waited it out and banged her - too much loyalty shown to my then GF
Stick it out man, then stick it in. It will be worth the investment. She'll probably be an absolute show-stopper in the sack.
I swear if she puts my d1ck in her mouth its over
My ex is now married to someone else with two kidsWhy not hit her up? are you still dating your GF? try to smash the lithuanian chick
Yep, I went over 10 years without touching my c0ck except to urinate... But I was married with a good wife who believed it kept peace in the house to go to bed happy!I use a giant sleeping pill. As far as no fap I only drain my c ock in a womans puss y, a ss or mouth. No fap is easy when you are getting it on the regular.
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
Stop "trying" and just do it. You have a bunch of puzzy around you.Okay boys. FVCKING BLUE BALLS AGAIN. Had two dates. One last night and one tonight.
DATE 1
The one last night was with a s3xy asian girl and all we did was make out, she straddled me, and she touched my d1ck. Her a$$ was absolutely phenomenal. But she didn't get me to ***. Even though I came a bit anyways because of the noFap. she was cool, and i had some fun.
DATE 2
Tonight I had a date with a really good looking 18 year old russian, who was tall (same height as me), blue eyed, and blonde haired. I told her to wear a sun dress and she said "I will wear what ever you want boss." We meet up and the date was AMAZING. She is fvcking awesome. Really cool, really funny, and has interesting things to say. /usually it is just me making the date interesting, but she actually contributed to it being awesome.
We start making out and she is beautiful up close. We get into my car and we start making out a lot. She straddles me, start sucking my thumb and grabbing my d1ck. I then start to choke her and she grabs my wrist to make me choke harder, and I make her call me daddy. UNFORTUNATELY SHE DIDNT MAKE ME ***. I tried fellas I really tried to fvck or get bj or something. So once again no *****. But my god she is beautiful, a silky, and aaaaaahhhhhhhh!
DAY FVCKING 19 FVCKKKKKKK
Wtf does that even meanStop "trying" and just do it. You have a bunch of puzzy around you.
He coulda nailed both of them females. He was overthinking his approach. Actually they phvcked with him and he couldn't nut because he was thinking too hard.Wtf does that even mean
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
That's a lot of assumptionsHe coulda nailed both of them females. He was overthinking his approach. Actually they phvcked with him and he couldn't nut because he was thinking too hard.
think cola had access to decent sex in between the nofap though which makes all the differenceGuys... I haven't posted in the last few days because I had a relapse. Some good happenings in this journey this month though:
1) Beat my streak from last month from 13 to 18 days. At day2 since reset, I hope to continue improving to hit 30 days consistently and improve the gap so lapses are fewer and far in between. @coda was inspiring in another thread where he stayed solid for 8 months. That's no easy feat and he's a younger guy.
2) Got more accomplished study wise.
3) Pushed it harder in the gym, I'm starting to notice some solid gains in the gym at week10 of Kris Gethin's 12-week bulking program. Filling out in my clothes which is a great feeling as today marks the official start of summer.
4) Passed on a girl asking me out to dance last Saturday night. Held back from being needy or texting, I always let her initiate. She waited for a few days to ask me out again. We're grabbing a beer tonight after work.
He said they sucked or jacked him but he couldn't nut because he was overthinking it...That's a lot of assumptions
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.