I had to restart on June 11th. So 6 days no fap now. I haven't had sechs since may so it has been hard (no pun intended).You can do it man!!! Stay strong! Go out and approach!
You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?
Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.
One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.
Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.
I had to restart on June 11th. So 6 days no fap now. I haven't had sechs since may so it has been hard (no pun intended).You can do it man!!! Stay strong! Go out and approach!
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
Keep going! I got the kiss of death last night but I kinda saw it coming and she aint my type anyways. That 18 year old sounded delicious though!Okay boys. FVCKING BLUE BALLS AGAIN. Had two dates. One last night and one tonight.
DATE 1
The one last night was with a s3xy asian girl and all we did was make out, she straddled me, and she touched my d1ck. Her a$$ was absolutely phenomenal. But she didn't get me to ***. Even though I came a bit anyways because of the noFap. she was cool, and i had some fun.
DATE 2
Tonight I had a date with a really good looking 18 year old russian, who was tall (same height as me), blue eyed, and blonde haired. I told her to wear a sun dress and she said "I will wear what ever you want boss." We meet up and the date was AMAZING. She is fvcking awesome. Really cool, really funny, and has interesting things to say. /usually it is just me making the date interesting, but she actually contributed to it being awesome.
We start making out and she is beautiful up close. We get into my car and we start making out a lot. She straddles me, start sucking my thumb and grabbing my d1ck. I then start to choke her and she grabs my wrist to make me choke harder, and I make her call me daddy. UNFORTUNATELY SHE DIDNT MAKE ME ***. I tried fellas I really tried to fvck or get bj or something. So once again no *****. But my god she is beautiful, a silky, and aaaaaahhhhhhhh!
DAY FVCKING 19 FVCKKKKKKK
Depending where from, Eastern Europeans and Russians have this kind of unwritten rule, like they really will make you wait three or four dates, as a kind of mild test. They know that the tension will just intensify the experience exponentially.DATE 2
Tonight I had a date with a really good looking 18 year old russian, who was tall (same height as me), blue eyed, and blonde haired. I told her to wear a sun dress and she said "I will wear what ever you want boss." We meet up and the date was AMAZING. She is fvcking awesome. Really cool, really funny, and has interesting things to say. /usually it is just me making the date interesting, but she actually contributed to it being awesome.
We start making out and she is beautiful up close. We get into my car and we start making out a lot. She straddles me, start sucking my thumb and grabbing my d1ck. I then start to choke her and she grabs my wrist to make me choke harder, and I make her call me daddy. UNFORTUNATELY SHE DIDNT MAKE ME ***. I tried fellas I really tried to fvck or get bj or something. So once again no *****. But my god she is beautiful, a silky, and aaaaaahhhhhhhh!
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
That is good to know. I am used to sleeping with middle eastern chicks who, in my experience, give out pretty easy. I like the challenge that she is giving me. However I fear that because of nofap I will cvm before I fvck her. I swear if she puts my d1ck in her mouth its over. I came a little bit last night just from her sucking my thumb. But, I'm not giving up boys. Day 19.Depending where from, Eastern Europeans and Russians have this kind of unwritten rule, like they really will make you wait three or four dates, as a kind of mild test. They know that the tension will just intensify the experience exponentially.
But almost like clockwork it will usually certainly happen on date 3/4. And those chicks really are worth the wait. Dated this Lithuanian chick a few years ago; man she was so beautiful and feminine in both body and mind. Wish I'd waited it out and banged her - too much loyalty shown to my then GF
Stick it out man, then stick it in. It will be worth the investment. She'll probably be an absolute show-stopper in the sack.
I swear if she puts my d1ck in her mouth its over
My ex is now married to someone else with two kidsWhy not hit her up? are you still dating your GF? try to smash the lithuanian chick
Yep, I went over 10 years without touching my c0ck except to urinate... But I was married with a good wife who believed it kept peace in the house to go to bed happy!I use a giant sleeping pill. As far as no fap I only drain my c ock in a womans puss y, a ss or mouth. No fap is easy when you are getting it on the regular.
You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.
I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.
Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.
These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.
Stop "trying" and just do it. You have a bunch of puzzy around you.Okay boys. FVCKING BLUE BALLS AGAIN. Had two dates. One last night and one tonight.
DATE 1
The one last night was with a s3xy asian girl and all we did was make out, she straddled me, and she touched my d1ck. Her a$$ was absolutely phenomenal. But she didn't get me to ***. Even though I came a bit anyways because of the noFap. she was cool, and i had some fun.
DATE 2
Tonight I had a date with a really good looking 18 year old russian, who was tall (same height as me), blue eyed, and blonde haired. I told her to wear a sun dress and she said "I will wear what ever you want boss." We meet up and the date was AMAZING. She is fvcking awesome. Really cool, really funny, and has interesting things to say. /usually it is just me making the date interesting, but she actually contributed to it being awesome.
We start making out and she is beautiful up close. We get into my car and we start making out a lot. She straddles me, start sucking my thumb and grabbing my d1ck. I then start to choke her and she grabs my wrist to make me choke harder, and I make her call me daddy. UNFORTUNATELY SHE DIDNT MAKE ME ***. I tried fellas I really tried to fvck or get bj or something. So once again no *****. But my god she is beautiful, a silky, and aaaaaahhhhhhhh!
DAY FVCKING 19 FVCKKKKKKK
Wtf does that even meanStop "trying" and just do it. You have a bunch of puzzy around you.
He coulda nailed both of them females. He was overthinking his approach. Actually they phvcked with him and he couldn't nut because he was thinking too hard.Wtf does that even mean
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
That's a lot of assumptionsHe coulda nailed both of them females. He was overthinking his approach. Actually they phvcked with him and he couldn't nut because he was thinking too hard.
think cola had access to decent sex in between the nofap though which makes all the differenceGuys... I haven't posted in the last few days because I had a relapse. Some good happenings in this journey this month though:
1) Beat my streak from last month from 13 to 18 days. At day2 since reset, I hope to continue improving to hit 30 days consistently and improve the gap so lapses are fewer and far in between. @coda was inspiring in another thread where he stayed solid for 8 months. That's no easy feat and he's a younger guy.
2) Got more accomplished study wise.
3) Pushed it harder in the gym, I'm starting to notice some solid gains in the gym at week10 of Kris Gethin's 12-week bulking program. Filling out in my clothes which is a great feeling as today marks the official start of summer.
4) Passed on a girl asking me out to dance last Saturday night. Held back from being needy or texting, I always let her initiate. She waited for a few days to ask me out again. We're grabbing a beer tonight after work.
He said they sucked or jacked him but he couldn't nut because he was overthinking it...That's a lot of assumptions
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.