I had to restart on June 11th. So 6 days no fap now. I haven't had sechs since may so it has been hard (no pun intended).You can do it man!!! Stay strong! Go out and approach!
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.
I had to restart on June 11th. So 6 days no fap now. I haven't had sechs since may so it has been hard (no pun intended).You can do it man!!! Stay strong! Go out and approach!
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
Keep going! I got the kiss of death last night but I kinda saw it coming and she aint my type anyways. That 18 year old sounded delicious though!Okay boys. FVCKING BLUE BALLS AGAIN. Had two dates. One last night and one tonight.
DATE 1
The one last night was with a s3xy asian girl and all we did was make out, she straddled me, and she touched my d1ck. Her a$$ was absolutely phenomenal. But she didn't get me to ***. Even though I came a bit anyways because of the noFap. she was cool, and i had some fun.
DATE 2
Tonight I had a date with a really good looking 18 year old russian, who was tall (same height as me), blue eyed, and blonde haired. I told her to wear a sun dress and she said "I will wear what ever you want boss." We meet up and the date was AMAZING. She is fvcking awesome. Really cool, really funny, and has interesting things to say. /usually it is just me making the date interesting, but she actually contributed to it being awesome.
We start making out and she is beautiful up close. We get into my car and we start making out a lot. She straddles me, start sucking my thumb and grabbing my d1ck. I then start to choke her and she grabs my wrist to make me choke harder, and I make her call me daddy. UNFORTUNATELY SHE DIDNT MAKE ME ***. I tried fellas I really tried to fvck or get bj or something. So once again no *****. But my god she is beautiful, a silky, and aaaaaahhhhhhhh!
DAY FVCKING 19 FVCKKKKKKK
Depending where from, Eastern Europeans and Russians have this kind of unwritten rule, like they really will make you wait three or four dates, as a kind of mild test. They know that the tension will just intensify the experience exponentially.DATE 2
Tonight I had a date with a really good looking 18 year old russian, who was tall (same height as me), blue eyed, and blonde haired. I told her to wear a sun dress and she said "I will wear what ever you want boss." We meet up and the date was AMAZING. She is fvcking awesome. Really cool, really funny, and has interesting things to say. /usually it is just me making the date interesting, but she actually contributed to it being awesome.
We start making out and she is beautiful up close. We get into my car and we start making out a lot. She straddles me, start sucking my thumb and grabbing my d1ck. I then start to choke her and she grabs my wrist to make me choke harder, and I make her call me daddy. UNFORTUNATELY SHE DIDNT MAKE ME ***. I tried fellas I really tried to fvck or get bj or something. So once again no *****. But my god she is beautiful, a silky, and aaaaaahhhhhhhh!
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
That is good to know. I am used to sleeping with middle eastern chicks who, in my experience, give out pretty easy. I like the challenge that she is giving me. However I fear that because of nofap I will cvm before I fvck her. I swear if she puts my d1ck in her mouth its over. I came a little bit last night just from her sucking my thumb. But, I'm not giving up boys. Day 19.Depending where from, Eastern Europeans and Russians have this kind of unwritten rule, like they really will make you wait three or four dates, as a kind of mild test. They know that the tension will just intensify the experience exponentially.
But almost like clockwork it will usually certainly happen on date 3/4. And those chicks really are worth the wait. Dated this Lithuanian chick a few years ago; man she was so beautiful and feminine in both body and mind. Wish I'd waited it out and banged her - too much loyalty shown to my then GF
Stick it out man, then stick it in. It will be worth the investment. She'll probably be an absolute show-stopper in the sack.
I swear if she puts my d1ck in her mouth its over
My ex is now married to someone else with two kidsWhy not hit her up? are you still dating your GF? try to smash the lithuanian chick
Yep, I went over 10 years without touching my c0ck except to urinate... But I was married with a good wife who believed it kept peace in the house to go to bed happy!I use a giant sleeping pill. As far as no fap I only drain my c ock in a womans puss y, a ss or mouth. No fap is easy when you are getting it on the regular.
Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.
I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.
Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules. Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.
Stop "trying" and just do it. You have a bunch of puzzy around you.Okay boys. FVCKING BLUE BALLS AGAIN. Had two dates. One last night and one tonight.
DATE 1
The one last night was with a s3xy asian girl and all we did was make out, she straddled me, and she touched my d1ck. Her a$$ was absolutely phenomenal. But she didn't get me to ***. Even though I came a bit anyways because of the noFap. she was cool, and i had some fun.
DATE 2
Tonight I had a date with a really good looking 18 year old russian, who was tall (same height as me), blue eyed, and blonde haired. I told her to wear a sun dress and she said "I will wear what ever you want boss." We meet up and the date was AMAZING. She is fvcking awesome. Really cool, really funny, and has interesting things to say. /usually it is just me making the date interesting, but she actually contributed to it being awesome.
We start making out and she is beautiful up close. We get into my car and we start making out a lot. She straddles me, start sucking my thumb and grabbing my d1ck. I then start to choke her and she grabs my wrist to make me choke harder, and I make her call me daddy. UNFORTUNATELY SHE DIDNT MAKE ME ***. I tried fellas I really tried to fvck or get bj or something. So once again no *****. But my god she is beautiful, a silky, and aaaaaahhhhhhhh!
DAY FVCKING 19 FVCKKKKKKK
Wtf does that even meanStop "trying" and just do it. You have a bunch of puzzy around you.
He coulda nailed both of them females. He was overthinking his approach. Actually they phvcked with him and he couldn't nut because he was thinking too hard.Wtf does that even mean
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
That's a lot of assumptionsHe coulda nailed both of them females. He was overthinking his approach. Actually they phvcked with him and he couldn't nut because he was thinking too hard.
think cola had access to decent sex in between the nofap though which makes all the differenceGuys... I haven't posted in the last few days because I had a relapse. Some good happenings in this journey this month though:
1) Beat my streak from last month from 13 to 18 days. At day2 since reset, I hope to continue improving to hit 30 days consistently and improve the gap so lapses are fewer and far in between. @coda was inspiring in another thread where he stayed solid for 8 months. That's no easy feat and he's a younger guy.
2) Got more accomplished study wise.
3) Pushed it harder in the gym, I'm starting to notice some solid gains in the gym at week10 of Kris Gethin's 12-week bulking program. Filling out in my clothes which is a great feeling as today marks the official start of summer.
4) Passed on a girl asking me out to dance last Saturday night. Held back from being needy or texting, I always let her initiate. She waited for a few days to ask me out again. We're grabbing a beer tonight after work.
He said they sucked or jacked him but he couldn't nut because he was overthinking it...That's a lot of assumptions
You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.
I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.
Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.
These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.