"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Ban me if I don't approach this girl tomorrow.


I'm going to go up to her and ask where she got that bandana she was wearing yesteryday. I'll be like, Were you the bandana girl? I thought it was intertesting... where did you get it... etc.


If I fail to do this tomorrow. Mods ban me. My life will be over.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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You sound like me, approaching a girl is the easiest part, having her like you/ her having instant attraction, building rapport, etc, is rolling gods dice. I feel like this, I can't get anywhere either, I overthink, my confidence always changes, always for the worst.

Oh and your line isn't gonna get you anything but a weird look and a "what????". Have fun.
 
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They should ban me too. There's this girl named Marissa that I just can't seem to approach. Man, I got balls, but they might as well not be there. I seriously want to just stop being nervous, stop having doubts about myself, and approach women. 2 years on this site, and I'm still nervous? WTF man, I think my head is messed up or something.
 
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GaryUranga said:
GET IN PERSPECTIVE, its just a person with boobs, whats so scary about that?! why having boobs would mean treating her any differently?
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...not only boobs... what about between the legs?Thats what you scared of :p
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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She still craps in the toilet. She still belches after fizzy drink. She still scratches her punani when no one is around. She is repulsive.

Now go get her.
 
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I honestly didn't see her today. Tomorrow I drive to school so I can leave when I want to, so I'll find her tomorrow.


But I'm a man of my word, you're welcome to ban me.
 
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It doesn't matter how long you've been into "DJ'in", almost everyone (even the greatest PUA's) get nervous.. Its set in our brain. But what you gotta learn to do is let go, and to stop caring, once you do that you're free. Free from fear of rejections, free from nervousness.. Try it, it will "Free your mind" so to speak.
 
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Well heck, I know that if I could just stop worrying about how to open to the girl , stop being insecure about my voice(Which people say is 'slow', and often times mock me for. Naturally I'm afraid that she might just diss me or not be interested in me because my voice sounds slow. Or because my voice is slow, she might think I'm retarded or something), and stop caring about rejection, I could do it. Let's face it, I'm beyond help, because even after I've read over countless advice on those things, I still can't stop caring, and I still have a hard time approaching girls.
 
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This is stupid
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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