“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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Ban me if I don't approach this girl tomorrow.


I'm going to go up to her and ask where she got that bandana she was wearing yesteryday. I'll be like, Were you the bandana girl? I thought it was intertesting... where did you get it... etc.


If I fail to do this tomorrow. Mods ban me. My life will be over.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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SexinEar

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You sound like me, approaching a girl is the easiest part, having her like you/ her having instant attraction, building rapport, etc, is rolling gods dice. I feel like this, I can't get anywhere either, I overthink, my confidence always changes, always for the worst.

Oh and your line isn't gonna get you anything but a weird look and a "what????". Have fun.
 

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They should ban me too. There's this girl named Marissa that I just can't seem to approach. Man, I got balls, but they might as well not be there. I seriously want to just stop being nervous, stop having doubts about myself, and approach women. 2 years on this site, and I'm still nervous? WTF man, I think my head is messed up or something.
 

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GaryUranga said:
GET IN PERSPECTIVE, its just a person with boobs, whats so scary about that?! why having boobs would mean treating her any differently?


...not only boobs... what about between the legs?Thats what you scared of :p
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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She still craps in the toilet. She still belches after fizzy drink. She still scratches her punani when no one is around. She is repulsive.

Now go get her.
 

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I honestly didn't see her today. Tomorrow I drive to school so I can leave when I want to, so I'll find her tomorrow.


But I'm a man of my word, you're welcome to ban me.
 

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It doesn't matter how long you've been into "DJ'in", almost everyone (even the greatest PUA's) get nervous.. Its set in our brain. But what you gotta learn to do is let go, and to stop caring, once you do that you're free. Free from fear of rejections, free from nervousness.. Try it, it will "Free your mind" so to speak.
 

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Well heck, I know that if I could just stop worrying about how to open to the girl , stop being insecure about my voice(Which people say is 'slow', and often times mock me for. Naturally I'm afraid that she might just diss me or not be interested in me because my voice sounds slow. Or because my voice is slow, she might think I'm retarded or something), and stop caring about rejection, I could do it. Let's face it, I'm beyond help, because even after I've read over countless advice on those things, I still can't stop caring, and I still have a hard time approaching girls.
 

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This is stupid
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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