Nobody's online identity is on the line

[Nobody]

Ban me if I don't approach this girl tomorrow.


I'm going to go up to her and ask where she got that bandana she was wearing yesteryday. I'll be like, Were you the bandana girl? I thought it was intertesting... where did you get it... etc.


If I fail to do this tomorrow. Mods ban me. My life will be over.

 

[SexinEar]

You sound like me, approaching a girl is the easiest part, having her like you/ her having instant attraction, building rapport, etc, is rolling gods dice. I feel like this, I can't get anywhere either, I overthink, my confidence always changes, always for the worst.

Oh and your line isn't gonna get you anything but a weird look and a "what????". Have fun.

 

[MrConfidence]

They should ban me too. There's this girl named Marissa that I just can't seem to approach. Man, I got balls, but they might as well not be there. I seriously want to just stop being nervous, stop having doubts about myself, and approach women. 2 years on this site, and I'm still nervous? WTF man, I think my head is messed up or something.

 

[GaryUranga]

GET IN PERSPECTIVE, its just a person with boobs, whats so scary about that?! why having boobs would mean treating her any differently?

 

[shydude]

GET IN PERSPECTIVE, its just a person with boobs, whats so scary about that?! why having boobs would mean treating her any differently?

...not only boobs... what about between the legs?Thats what you scared of

 

[KillaCam]

She still craps in the toilet. She still belches after fizzy drink. She still scratches her punani when no one is around. She is repulsive.

Now go get her.

 

[Nobody]

I honestly didn't see her today. Tomorrow I drive to school so I can leave when I want to, so I'll find her tomorrow.


But I'm a man of my word, you're welcome to ban me.

 

[Elky]

It doesn't matter how long you've been into "DJ'in", almost everyone (even the greatest PUA's) get nervous.. Its set in our brain. But what you gotta learn to do is let go, and to stop caring, once you do that you're free. Free from fear of rejections, free from nervousness.. Try it, it will "Free your mind" so to speak.

 

[MrConfidence]

Well heck, I know that if I could just stop worrying about how to open to the girl , stop being insecure about my voice(Which people say is 'slow', and often times mock me for. Naturally I'm afraid that she might just diss me or not be interested in me because my voice sounds slow. Or because my voice is slow, she might think I'm retarded or something), and stop caring about rejection, I could do it. Let's face it, I'm beyond help, because even after I've read over countless advice on those things, I still can't stop caring, and I still have a hard time approaching girls.

 

[Vincent]

This is stupid