"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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Ban me if I don't approach this girl tomorrow.


I'm going to go up to her and ask where she got that bandana she was wearing yesteryday. I'll be like, Were you the bandana girl? I thought it was intertesting... where did you get it... etc.


If I fail to do this tomorrow. Mods ban me. My life will be over.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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You sound like me, approaching a girl is the easiest part, having her like you/ her having instant attraction, building rapport, etc, is rolling gods dice. I feel like this, I can't get anywhere either, I overthink, my confidence always changes, always for the worst.

Oh and your line isn't gonna get you anything but a weird look and a "what????". Have fun.
 
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They should ban me too. There's this girl named Marissa that I just can't seem to approach. Man, I got balls, but they might as well not be there. I seriously want to just stop being nervous, stop having doubts about myself, and approach women. 2 years on this site, and I'm still nervous? WTF man, I think my head is messed up or something.
 
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GaryUranga said:
GET IN PERSPECTIVE, its just a person with boobs, whats so scary about that?! why having boobs would mean treating her any differently?
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...not only boobs... what about between the legs?Thats what you scared of :p
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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She still craps in the toilet. She still belches after fizzy drink. She still scratches her punani when no one is around. She is repulsive.

Now go get her.
 
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I honestly didn't see her today. Tomorrow I drive to school so I can leave when I want to, so I'll find her tomorrow.


But I'm a man of my word, you're welcome to ban me.
 
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It doesn't matter how long you've been into "DJ'in", almost everyone (even the greatest PUA's) get nervous.. Its set in our brain. But what you gotta learn to do is let go, and to stop caring, once you do that you're free. Free from fear of rejections, free from nervousness.. Try it, it will "Free your mind" so to speak.
 
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Well heck, I know that if I could just stop worrying about how to open to the girl , stop being insecure about my voice(Which people say is 'slow', and often times mock me for. Naturally I'm afraid that she might just diss me or not be interested in me because my voice sounds slow. Or because my voice is slow, she might think I'm retarded or something), and stop caring about rejection, I could do it. Let's face it, I'm beyond help, because even after I've read over countless advice on those things, I still can't stop caring, and I still have a hard time approaching girls.
 
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This is stupid
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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