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??? I'm from new york and nyc is great for minorities. Loads of interracial dating and marriage in nyc. I was burn and raised there...so I know of what I speak.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

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Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Jaylan said:
??? I'm from new york and nyc is great for minorities. Loads of interracial dating and marriage in nyc. I was burn and raised there...so I know of what I speak.
do ya now? from what im reading on sosuave you are phucked if youre indian, black, white, purple, asian, 47colored, or lemon lime flavored.

lol you guys are pretty pathetic. (the guys who start these threads of course, oh and gaylan cause gaylan. )
 

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Jaylan said:
??? I'm from new york and nyc is great for minorities. Loads of interracial dating and marriage in nyc. I was burn and raised there...so I know of what I speak.
By interracial dating, do you mean Asian women latching on to white men?

Oh, there's plenty of that out here too. Pretty soon there won't be any 100% white kids any more cause they will all have asian blood in them.
 

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I mean all kinds of mixing dude. Though you do see plenty of asian chick white guy couples...as well as black guy white girl couples. But the thing about nyc is you will definitely run into all kinds of mixing. Nyc is the mecca and hub of the cultural world in our county.

I see certain mixing id not see in other nearby cities.
 
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Jaylan said:
I mean all kinds of mixing dude. Though you do see plenty of asian chick white guy couples...as well as black guy white girl couples. But the thing about nyc is you will definitely run into all kinds of mixing. Nyc is the mecca and hub of the cultural world in our county.

I see certain mixing id not see in other nearby cities.
Like what kind are we talking here?

I would personally love to be in a city where you see more variety in interracial couples. Asian women with White men and Black men with White women is found everywhere in the US in high numbers. I've heard it is common to see mestizo looking Latinos with White girls out west though but can't confirm if it is true.
 

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Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

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about 2 months ago I met a client of mine at starbucks, an english teacher. Male, about 42 years old. Anyway I've met him before. So he tells me he is going to bring his wife with him she has some questions about the project. So I show up and there is this 35 year old cute black chick with him. I admit i was taken back. Not even a racist taking back but more along the lines of "damn I wasn't expecting that" taken back lol. She was cool though.
 
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I have seen more young Black American women in interracial relationships and show preferences towards different races of men. Just talking to Black women, I notice a lot are quick to point out sex symbols of other races (Asian, Latino, Indian, Pacific Islander, etc.). I have seen Black women date and marry almost all races of men out there (actually all out there). With younger White women I notice a lot less of this. I see and meet more older White women in interracial relationships than younger ones.

It seems like these days with interracial relationships, they are increasing but what is happening is that minorities are dating and marrying other minorities (Black and Asian, Latino and Black, Latino and Asian, etc.) and White men are increasingly dating and marrying women from minority backgrounds. With the exception of relationships with Black men, White women are starting to stay away from interracial relationships.
 
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I don't get the hate and envy towards White guys everyone has. We act like average joe is living the same lifestyle as Hugh Hefner when that isn't true. Men in general have it tough these days because women are starting to have higher standards than before. I like it when any guy does well TBH because I can learn from his successes. When all is said and done, the White dude who is doing well had to go through some nonsense too. Sure he didn't have to go through as much as a minority but he still had to put in the work.

Race threads should be about giving minorities certain tips (like staying away from some areas and not going after certain kinds of girls) rather than tearing someone down.

With that said, as addictive as these race threads can get, just reading the stuff on them takes a toll on my mind. I am taking a break from these talks yet again. They can be fun to talk about but when in moderation but too much and you are wasting time.
 

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I won't even lie: Middle eastern and far eastern dudes definitely have trouble picking up chicks the city I live in. They exclusively date within their race unless they have lots of money. Not saying that to be a jerk, it's just what I've noticed.

I see black dudes date a wide array of women. Same with white dudes. It's very rare I see an asian dude with a white chick unless he is a super alpha asian dude and the chick is a 5. Don't think I've ever seen a middleastern dude with a white chick - maybe like once ever.

That said, there's plenty of white and black dudes who don't get any play. As a middle class white guy, I can say if you have a decent personality, looks, and any amount of game, you can at least be smashing 6's and dating 5's at least.
 

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Chicago is racially mixed up, all kind of mixes...even though it is segregated
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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JohnChops said:
do ya now? from what im reading on sosuave you are phucked if youre indian, black, white, purple, asian, 47colored, or lemon lime flavored.

lol you guys are pretty pathetic. (the guys who start these threads of course, oh and gaylan cause gaylan. )
Actually whats pathetic is little fairy f@ggots like you chiming in with nothing of worth to add to a thread...just a mere troll attempt. Grow up kid ;)
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Like what kind are we talking here?

I would personally love to be in a city where you see more variety in interracial couples. Asian women with White men and Black men with White women is found everywhere in the US in high numbers. I've heard it is common to see mestizo looking Latinos with White girls out west though but can't confirm if it is true.
Im talking anything you can think of. Asian dudes with blacks girls. Indians with white girls. Straight up out of africa looking black women with white guys. Ive seen it all.

And let me tell you about this one time I saw the last pairing. It was at central park...and I see this white dude, corporate looking as fvk...walking around. The kind of guy, that by just looking at him, you knew he had puzzy options if he wanted them. Tall, good looking, great suit, nice shoes. Eventually he walks up to this black woman with kids and smiles a big ole smile and kisses her. The kids were obviously mixed, and this woman had a cesar short hair cut, and a banging body.

I just smiled at how proud homeboy seemed with his woman and his kids. Dude looked legit happy.

Anyways, while NYC is more diverse and people feel less pressure to solely date their own...you can still run into racist idiots who give looks or make nasty comments about who you decide to date. No place is perfect.
 

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And let me tell you about this one time I saw the last pairing. It was at central park...and I see this white dude, corporate looking as fvk...walking around. The kind of guy, that by just looking at him, you knew he had puzzy options if he wanted them. Tall, good looking, great suit, nice shoes. Eventually he walks up to this black woman with kids and smiles a big ole smile and kisses her. The kids were obviously mixed, and this woman had a cesar short hair cut, and a banging body.

I just smiled at how proud homeboy seemed with his woman and his kids. Dude looked legit happy.
Haha, for some reason I always like seeing white dudes with black chicks, I can't help but smirk.

Anyways, OP will never have the same success as a white male or any other race because he's whiny as fvck. There's venting and then there's just plain stupidity. This thread falls under the latter. Seriously man you b!tch and moan more than most teenage girls do. How the fvck do you whine enough to get banned only to make a new account and whine even more? This isn't helping you or anyone else. STFU, get the estrogen out of your system and keep grinding until you get the success you want.
 

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JoeMarron said:
Haha, for some reason I always like seeing white dudes with black chicks, I can't help but smirk.

Anyways, OP will never have the same success as a white male or any other race because he's whiny as fvck. There's venting and then there's just plain stupidity. This thread falls under the latter. Seriously man you b!tch and moan more than most teenage girls do. How the fvck do you whine enough to get banned only to make a new account and whine even more? This isn't helping you or anyone else. STFU, get the estrogen out of your system and keep grinding until you get the success you want.
No, why should I spend all my time grinding for petty results when joe the white guy can spend less than half of my effort for better results. I'd rather whine.
 

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No, why should I spend all my time grinding for petty results when joe the white guy can spend less than half of my effort for better results. I'd rather whine.
That's fine too. Continue to whine while black dudes like backbreaker, Jaylan, me and others here have success with women.
 

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JoeMarron said:
That's fine too. Continue to whine while black dudes like backbreaker, Jaylan, me and others here have success with women.
They dont live in the south
 

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Dhoulmagus said:
They dont live in the south
PrettyBoyAJ is from Atlanta and seems to have did quite well. Dude, how many chicks do you holla at in a day?
 

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Dhoulmagus said:
No, why should I spend all my time grinding for petty results when joe the white guy can spend less than half of my effort for better results. I'd rather whine.

Dude, you need to step up your game. I see black guys with HB 10 white girls almost regularly. Black guys have a huge edge b/c they are genetically superior with muscles.

And ya'll thought I was a whiner...
 

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Dude, you need to step up your game. I see black guys with HB 10 white girls almost regularly. Black guys have a huge edge b/c they are genetically superior with muscles.

And ya'll thought I was a whiner...
False on the muscle thing.

After I got into lifting, I found out the reason this myth exists is largely due to contrast. Why do you think bodybuilders get so bronzed before going on stage? Because light hits the muscles and pops more under a dark appearance. Muscles look more big and cut just because of the way the light hits them. Plenty of huge guys are not black, and actually most elite strong men tend to be white guys from Europe.

The over-representation of black athletes in American sports causes too many people to ignorantly assume that all blacks will get some muscle or athletic edge over everyone else. When in reality, its one subset of blacks in the Americas that excel (west african descent)...and there are tons of blacks of different bloodlines who wont perform the same way. Also, black over-representation in 2 of Americas major sports can be explained sociologically as well.

Just look what happened to baseball...where its hardly black anymore. If you have a community where excelling in certain sports is promoted as a major way to succeed at life...youll see over-representation in a particular sport if other communities arent pushing their youth in the same manner. What Im saying is that certain communities push their youth to do very well in sports, more so than other communities. Its why Samoans are seen as so great at football and greatly over-represented in the NFL...despite American Samoa's small population of less than 70,000. And Im sure no one would say those guys are naturally just better than blacks or whites at football. American football is just a big part of their culture....like the way they push some of their youth is huge.

http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/American_football_in_American_Samoa

Anyways, Im not saying there exist no physical difference between races...but its vastly overstated by people. I see plenty of huge dudes walking around daily that arent black. And I see tons, and I mean tons, of skinny black guys. I just think people have bought into the "big black guy" idea so much, that they notice a big dude more if he happens to be black.
 

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Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

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