I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
do ya now? from what im reading on sosuave you are phucked if youre indian, black, white, purple, asian, 47colored, or lemon lime flavored.Jaylan said:??? I'm from new york and nyc is great for minorities. Loads of interracial dating and marriage in nyc. I was burn and raised there...so I know of what I speak.
By interracial dating, do you mean Asian women latching on to white men?Jaylan said:??? I'm from new york and nyc is great for minorities. Loads of interracial dating and marriage in nyc. I was burn and raised there...so I know of what I speak.
Like what kind are we talking here?Jaylan said:I mean all kinds of mixing dude. Though you do see plenty of asian chick white guy couples...as well as black guy white girl couples. But the thing about nyc is you will definitely run into all kinds of mixing. Nyc is the mecca and hub of the cultural world in our county.
I see certain mixing id not see in other nearby cities.
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
Actually whats pathetic is little fairy f@ggots like you chiming in with nothing of worth to add to a thread...just a mere troll attempt. Grow up kidJohnChops said:do ya now? from what im reading on sosuave you are phucked if youre indian, black, white, purple, asian, 47colored, or lemon lime flavored.
lol you guys are pretty pathetic. (the guys who start these threads of course, oh and gaylan cause gaylan. )
Im talking anything you can think of. Asian dudes with blacks girls. Indians with white girls. Straight up out of africa looking black women with white guys. Ive seen it all.Ambitious Player said:Like what kind are we talking here?
I would personally love to be in a city where you see more variety in interracial couples. Asian women with White men and Black men with White women is found everywhere in the US in high numbers. I've heard it is common to see mestizo looking Latinos with White girls out west though but can't confirm if it is true.
Haha, for some reason I always like seeing white dudes with black chicks, I can't help but smirk.And let me tell you about this one time I saw the last pairing. It was at central park...and I see this white dude, corporate looking as fvk...walking around. The kind of guy, that by just looking at him, you knew he had puzzy options if he wanted them. Tall, good looking, great suit, nice shoes. Eventually he walks up to this black woman with kids and smiles a big ole smile and kisses her. The kids were obviously mixed, and this woman had a cesar short hair cut, and a banging body.
I just smiled at how proud homeboy seemed with his woman and his kids. Dude looked legit happy.
No, why should I spend all my time grinding for petty results when joe the white guy can spend less than half of my effort for better results. I'd rather whine.JoeMarron said:Haha, for some reason I always like seeing white dudes with black chicks, I can't help but smirk.
Anyways, OP will never have the same success as a white male or any other race because he's whiny as fvck. There's venting and then there's just plain stupidity. This thread falls under the latter. Seriously man you b!tch and moan more than most teenage girls do. How the fvck do you whine enough to get banned only to make a new account and whine even more? This isn't helping you or anyone else. STFU, get the estrogen out of your system and keep grinding until you get the success you want.
That's fine too. Continue to whine while black dudes like backbreaker, Jaylan, me and others here have success with women.Dhoulmagus said:No, why should I spend all my time grinding for petty results when joe the white guy can spend less than half of my effort for better results. I'd rather whine.
You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.
I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.
Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.
These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.
They dont live in the southJoeMarron said:That's fine too. Continue to whine while black dudes like backbreaker, Jaylan, me and others here have success with women.
PrettyBoyAJ is from Atlanta and seems to have did quite well. Dude, how many chicks do you holla at in a day?Dhoulmagus said:They dont live in the south
Dhoulmagus said:No, why should I spend all my time grinding for petty results when joe the white guy can spend less than half of my effort for better results. I'd rather whine.
False on the muscle thing.skinnyguy said:Dude, you need to step up your game. I see black guys with HB 10 white girls almost regularly. Black guys have a huge edge b/c they are genetically superior with muscles.
And ya'll thought I was a whiner...
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.