You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.
I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.
Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.
These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.
do ya now? from what im reading on sosuave you are phucked if youre indian, black, white, purple, asian, 47colored, or lemon lime flavored.Jaylan said:??? I'm from new york and nyc is great for minorities. Loads of interracial dating and marriage in nyc. I was burn and raised there...so I know of what I speak.
By interracial dating, do you mean Asian women latching on to white men?Jaylan said:??? I'm from new york and nyc is great for minorities. Loads of interracial dating and marriage in nyc. I was burn and raised there...so I know of what I speak.
Like what kind are we talking here?Jaylan said:I mean all kinds of mixing dude. Though you do see plenty of asian chick white guy couples...as well as black guy white girl couples. But the thing about nyc is you will definitely run into all kinds of mixing. Nyc is the mecca and hub of the cultural world in our county.
I see certain mixing id not see in other nearby cities.
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
Actually whats pathetic is little fairy f@ggots like you chiming in with nothing of worth to add to a thread...just a mere troll attempt. Grow up kidJohnChops said:do ya now? from what im reading on sosuave you are phucked if youre indian, black, white, purple, asian, 47colored, or lemon lime flavored.
lol you guys are pretty pathetic. (the guys who start these threads of course, oh and gaylan cause gaylan. )
Im talking anything you can think of. Asian dudes with blacks girls. Indians with white girls. Straight up out of africa looking black women with white guys. Ive seen it all.Ambitious Player said:Like what kind are we talking here?
I would personally love to be in a city where you see more variety in interracial couples. Asian women with White men and Black men with White women is found everywhere in the US in high numbers. I've heard it is common to see mestizo looking Latinos with White girls out west though but can't confirm if it is true.
Haha, for some reason I always like seeing white dudes with black chicks, I can't help but smirk.And let me tell you about this one time I saw the last pairing. It was at central park...and I see this white dude, corporate looking as fvk...walking around. The kind of guy, that by just looking at him, you knew he had puzzy options if he wanted them. Tall, good looking, great suit, nice shoes. Eventually he walks up to this black woman with kids and smiles a big ole smile and kisses her. The kids were obviously mixed, and this woman had a cesar short hair cut, and a banging body.
I just smiled at how proud homeboy seemed with his woman and his kids. Dude looked legit happy.
No, why should I spend all my time grinding for petty results when joe the white guy can spend less than half of my effort for better results. I'd rather whine.JoeMarron said:Haha, for some reason I always like seeing white dudes with black chicks, I can't help but smirk.
Anyways, OP will never have the same success as a white male or any other race because he's whiny as fvck. There's venting and then there's just plain stupidity. This thread falls under the latter. Seriously man you b!tch and moan more than most teenage girls do. How the fvck do you whine enough to get banned only to make a new account and whine even more? This isn't helping you or anyone else. STFU, get the estrogen out of your system and keep grinding until you get the success you want.
That's fine too. Continue to whine while black dudes like backbreaker, Jaylan, me and others here have success with women.Dhoulmagus said:No, why should I spend all my time grinding for petty results when joe the white guy can spend less than half of my effort for better results. I'd rather whine.
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
They dont live in the southJoeMarron said:That's fine too. Continue to whine while black dudes like backbreaker, Jaylan, me and others here have success with women.
PrettyBoyAJ is from Atlanta and seems to have did quite well. Dude, how many chicks do you holla at in a day?Dhoulmagus said:They dont live in the south
Dhoulmagus said:No, why should I spend all my time grinding for petty results when joe the white guy can spend less than half of my effort for better results. I'd rather whine.
False on the muscle thing.skinnyguy said:Dude, you need to step up your game. I see black guys with HB 10 white girls almost regularly. Black guys have a huge edge b/c they are genetically superior with muscles.
And ya'll thought I was a whiner...
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.