You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
do ya now? from what im reading on sosuave you are phucked if youre indian, black, white, purple, asian, 47colored, or lemon lime flavored.Jaylan said:??? I'm from new york and nyc is great for minorities. Loads of interracial dating and marriage in nyc. I was burn and raised there...so I know of what I speak.
By interracial dating, do you mean Asian women latching on to white men?Jaylan said:??? I'm from new york and nyc is great for minorities. Loads of interracial dating and marriage in nyc. I was burn and raised there...so I know of what I speak.
Like what kind are we talking here?Jaylan said:I mean all kinds of mixing dude. Though you do see plenty of asian chick white guy couples...as well as black guy white girl couples. But the thing about nyc is you will definitely run into all kinds of mixing. Nyc is the mecca and hub of the cultural world in our county.
I see certain mixing id not see in other nearby cities.
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
Actually whats pathetic is little fairy f@ggots like you chiming in with nothing of worth to add to a thread...just a mere troll attempt. Grow up kidJohnChops said:do ya now? from what im reading on sosuave you are phucked if youre indian, black, white, purple, asian, 47colored, or lemon lime flavored.
lol you guys are pretty pathetic. (the guys who start these threads of course, oh and gaylan cause gaylan. )
Im talking anything you can think of. Asian dudes with blacks girls. Indians with white girls. Straight up out of africa looking black women with white guys. Ive seen it all.Ambitious Player said:Like what kind are we talking here?
I would personally love to be in a city where you see more variety in interracial couples. Asian women with White men and Black men with White women is found everywhere in the US in high numbers. I've heard it is common to see mestizo looking Latinos with White girls out west though but can't confirm if it is true.
Haha, for some reason I always like seeing white dudes with black chicks, I can't help but smirk.And let me tell you about this one time I saw the last pairing. It was at central park...and I see this white dude, corporate looking as fvk...walking around. The kind of guy, that by just looking at him, you knew he had puzzy options if he wanted them. Tall, good looking, great suit, nice shoes. Eventually he walks up to this black woman with kids and smiles a big ole smile and kisses her. The kids were obviously mixed, and this woman had a cesar short hair cut, and a banging body.
I just smiled at how proud homeboy seemed with his woman and his kids. Dude looked legit happy.
No, why should I spend all my time grinding for petty results when joe the white guy can spend less than half of my effort for better results. I'd rather whine.JoeMarron said:Haha, for some reason I always like seeing white dudes with black chicks, I can't help but smirk.
Anyways, OP will never have the same success as a white male or any other race because he's whiny as fvck. There's venting and then there's just plain stupidity. This thread falls under the latter. Seriously man you b!tch and moan more than most teenage girls do. How the fvck do you whine enough to get banned only to make a new account and whine even more? This isn't helping you or anyone else. STFU, get the estrogen out of your system and keep grinding until you get the success you want.
That's fine too. Continue to whine while black dudes like backbreaker, Jaylan, me and others here have success with women.Dhoulmagus said:No, why should I spend all my time grinding for petty results when joe the white guy can spend less than half of my effort for better results. I'd rather whine.
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
They dont live in the southJoeMarron said:That's fine too. Continue to whine while black dudes like backbreaker, Jaylan, me and others here have success with women.
PrettyBoyAJ is from Atlanta and seems to have did quite well. Dude, how many chicks do you holla at in a day?Dhoulmagus said:They dont live in the south
Dhoulmagus said:No, why should I spend all my time grinding for petty results when joe the white guy can spend less than half of my effort for better results. I'd rather whine.
False on the muscle thing.skinnyguy said:Dude, you need to step up your game. I see black guys with HB 10 white girls almost regularly. Black guys have a huge edge b/c they are genetically superior with muscles.
And ya'll thought I was a whiner...
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.