Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
do ya now? from what im reading on sosuave you are phucked if youre indian, black, white, purple, asian, 47colored, or lemon lime flavored.Jaylan said:??? I'm from new york and nyc is great for minorities. Loads of interracial dating and marriage in nyc. I was burn and raised there...so I know of what I speak.
By interracial dating, do you mean Asian women latching on to white men?Jaylan said:??? I'm from new york and nyc is great for minorities. Loads of interracial dating and marriage in nyc. I was burn and raised there...so I know of what I speak.
Like what kind are we talking here?Jaylan said:I mean all kinds of mixing dude. Though you do see plenty of asian chick white guy couples...as well as black guy white girl couples. But the thing about nyc is you will definitely run into all kinds of mixing. Nyc is the mecca and hub of the cultural world in our county.
I see certain mixing id not see in other nearby cities.
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
Actually whats pathetic is little fairy f@ggots like you chiming in with nothing of worth to add to a thread...just a mere troll attempt. Grow up kidJohnChops said:do ya now? from what im reading on sosuave you are phucked if youre indian, black, white, purple, asian, 47colored, or lemon lime flavored.
lol you guys are pretty pathetic. (the guys who start these threads of course, oh and gaylan cause gaylan. )
Im talking anything you can think of. Asian dudes with blacks girls. Indians with white girls. Straight up out of africa looking black women with white guys. Ive seen it all.Ambitious Player said:Like what kind are we talking here?
I would personally love to be in a city where you see more variety in interracial couples. Asian women with White men and Black men with White women is found everywhere in the US in high numbers. I've heard it is common to see mestizo looking Latinos with White girls out west though but can't confirm if it is true.
Haha, for some reason I always like seeing white dudes with black chicks, I can't help but smirk.And let me tell you about this one time I saw the last pairing. It was at central park...and I see this white dude, corporate looking as fvk...walking around. The kind of guy, that by just looking at him, you knew he had puzzy options if he wanted them. Tall, good looking, great suit, nice shoes. Eventually he walks up to this black woman with kids and smiles a big ole smile and kisses her. The kids were obviously mixed, and this woman had a cesar short hair cut, and a banging body.
I just smiled at how proud homeboy seemed with his woman and his kids. Dude looked legit happy.
No, why should I spend all my time grinding for petty results when joe the white guy can spend less than half of my effort for better results. I'd rather whine.JoeMarron said:Haha, for some reason I always like seeing white dudes with black chicks, I can't help but smirk.
Anyways, OP will never have the same success as a white male or any other race because he's whiny as fvck. There's venting and then there's just plain stupidity. This thread falls under the latter. Seriously man you b!tch and moan more than most teenage girls do. How the fvck do you whine enough to get banned only to make a new account and whine even more? This isn't helping you or anyone else. STFU, get the estrogen out of your system and keep grinding until you get the success you want.
That's fine too. Continue to whine while black dudes like backbreaker, Jaylan, me and others here have success with women.Dhoulmagus said:No, why should I spend all my time grinding for petty results when joe the white guy can spend less than half of my effort for better results. I'd rather whine.
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
They dont live in the southJoeMarron said:That's fine too. Continue to whine while black dudes like backbreaker, Jaylan, me and others here have success with women.
PrettyBoyAJ is from Atlanta and seems to have did quite well. Dude, how many chicks do you holla at in a day?Dhoulmagus said:They dont live in the south
Dhoulmagus said:No, why should I spend all my time grinding for petty results when joe the white guy can spend less than half of my effort for better results. I'd rather whine.
False on the muscle thing.skinnyguy said:Dude, you need to step up your game. I see black guys with HB 10 white girls almost regularly. Black guys have a huge edge b/c they are genetically superior with muscles.
And ya'll thought I was a whiner...
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.