She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.
You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.
The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
do ya now? from what im reading on sosuave you are phucked if youre indian, black, white, purple, asian, 47colored, or lemon lime flavored.Jaylan said:??? I'm from new york and nyc is great for minorities. Loads of interracial dating and marriage in nyc. I was burn and raised there...so I know of what I speak.
By interracial dating, do you mean Asian women latching on to white men?Jaylan said:??? I'm from new york and nyc is great for minorities. Loads of interracial dating and marriage in nyc. I was burn and raised there...so I know of what I speak.
Like what kind are we talking here?Jaylan said:I mean all kinds of mixing dude. Though you do see plenty of asian chick white guy couples...as well as black guy white girl couples. But the thing about nyc is you will definitely run into all kinds of mixing. Nyc is the mecca and hub of the cultural world in our county.
I see certain mixing id not see in other nearby cities.
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
Actually whats pathetic is little fairy f@ggots like you chiming in with nothing of worth to add to a thread...just a mere troll attempt. Grow up kidJohnChops said:do ya now? from what im reading on sosuave you are phucked if youre indian, black, white, purple, asian, 47colored, or lemon lime flavored.
lol you guys are pretty pathetic. (the guys who start these threads of course, oh and gaylan cause gaylan. )
Im talking anything you can think of. Asian dudes with blacks girls. Indians with white girls. Straight up out of africa looking black women with white guys. Ive seen it all.Ambitious Player said:Like what kind are we talking here?
I would personally love to be in a city where you see more variety in interracial couples. Asian women with White men and Black men with White women is found everywhere in the US in high numbers. I've heard it is common to see mestizo looking Latinos with White girls out west though but can't confirm if it is true.
Haha, for some reason I always like seeing white dudes with black chicks, I can't help but smirk.And let me tell you about this one time I saw the last pairing. It was at central park...and I see this white dude, corporate looking as fvk...walking around. The kind of guy, that by just looking at him, you knew he had puzzy options if he wanted them. Tall, good looking, great suit, nice shoes. Eventually he walks up to this black woman with kids and smiles a big ole smile and kisses her. The kids were obviously mixed, and this woman had a cesar short hair cut, and a banging body.
I just smiled at how proud homeboy seemed with his woman and his kids. Dude looked legit happy.
No, why should I spend all my time grinding for petty results when joe the white guy can spend less than half of my effort for better results. I'd rather whine.JoeMarron said:Haha, for some reason I always like seeing white dudes with black chicks, I can't help but smirk.
Anyways, OP will never have the same success as a white male or any other race because he's whiny as fvck. There's venting and then there's just plain stupidity. This thread falls under the latter. Seriously man you b!tch and moan more than most teenage girls do. How the fvck do you whine enough to get banned only to make a new account and whine even more? This isn't helping you or anyone else. STFU, get the estrogen out of your system and keep grinding until you get the success you want.
That's fine too. Continue to whine while black dudes like backbreaker, Jaylan, me and others here have success with women.Dhoulmagus said:No, why should I spend all my time grinding for petty results when joe the white guy can spend less than half of my effort for better results. I'd rather whine.
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
They dont live in the southJoeMarron said:That's fine too. Continue to whine while black dudes like backbreaker, Jaylan, me and others here have success with women.
PrettyBoyAJ is from Atlanta and seems to have did quite well. Dude, how many chicks do you holla at in a day?Dhoulmagus said:They dont live in the south
Dhoulmagus said:No, why should I spend all my time grinding for petty results when joe the white guy can spend less than half of my effort for better results. I'd rather whine.
False on the muscle thing.skinnyguy said:Dude, you need to step up your game. I see black guys with HB 10 white girls almost regularly. Black guys have a huge edge b/c they are genetically superior with muscles.
And ya'll thought I was a whiner...
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.