"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
No Masturbating - Am I normal?
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"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
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PUT IT LIKE THIS.... masterbating is not right so dont think you should masterbate to be like every single virgin on this site.
theunflushables
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"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
i once met a tom cruise look-a-like/karate expert/lockpicker/barbed wire climber/leather jacket-wearing really, really cool 16-year old dude who is a NATURAL chick magnet who doesn't watch porn, doesn't jerk off, and has never heard of lube.
A question: Do you blow in your sleep sometimes?
Serious question, all of us guys would if we don't wank for long enough.
These days in my early 20's I need to do it often because I'm at my sexual peek as a male. So i need to do it more often. There are many biological things that happen in your brain chemistry and so on that masturbation can help you with.
If i didnt masturbate I would just always up uptight, of couse working out and other stress relief is important too, but sexual stress that guys develop needs to be aided because you cant expect a girl to be around all the time, even if you are in a great relationship and your girl is a nympho... you still may want to masturbate for certain health reasons and because you enjoy it.
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SinJester said:
Yea I *** in my sleep sometimes, maybe once a week. I think about sex about twice a week now and I don't grab my balls.
"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
Daddy The Pimp
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You cant even force yourself not to masturbate after a few minutes in there lol
antidonjuan
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theunflushables said:
honestly masturbation is self deprecating and self destructive and if you dont know it also increases approach anxiety(aa) so that only leaves more worse than better(so youare making yourself have a harder time meeting people). This dude is doing a great job, kid dont jackoff ever, youll end up worse than better.
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another question: i used to watch porn a lot last year and i dun watch it anymore this year, is that normal too? I'd admit i love to read sex fantasies but not porn.
"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
Antidonjuan one a week in your sleep sounds messy. Whats the differance between that and getting off once a week? At least you get pleasure out of one of them. No one is serioulsy suggesting you do it every day. But if you can't be sexual with yourself how are you going to ever be sexual with girls?
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sinjester lol.poor guy i got proof check this out.http://www.yangtown.com/ebooks/revive-your-sex-drive-free-taoist-sexual-energy-techniques-ebook/SinJester said:
look it up and read it you numbskull. Also sex is good for everyone, its what humans live for, physical connection/a feeling of importance(psychology stuff). Porn makes you evaluate a woman based on looks, and after the act you feel guilt and shame. When you see a girl you like for her looks, you tie it to the guilt and shame you had jacking off. What don-juans knows that jacking-off is lazy,self destructive, and only limits your socialness and relationships.
Here's some links you might want to check out:
http://www.coolnurse.com/masturbation.htm
http://www.newscientist.com/article/dn3942-masturbating-may-protect-against-prostate-cancer.html
There's a few different views here:
http://wiki.answers.com/Q/Is_masturbation_bad_for_you
Of course it is bad if you do it too much, but so is everything. Anything saying it is bad is purely spiritual with no scientific proof to back it up. Besides would going in your pants drain the same amount of 'life force' as masterbating?
I respect your views but I am just arguing my own. I'm not going to hold a grudge because I've likes what I've seen in some other of your posts.
"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.