No Masturbating - Am I normal?

[rockman]

your 15 and have only masturbated 2 or 3 times in your LIFE? If i was you id be a little worried cuz when I was 15 i did it almost every day.

 

[Stacks Of Terror]

Unless you have erectile dysfunction you're straight man.

 

[oneshot]

fat porn > latina porn

fvck man, you must be sick

 

[collalife]

honestly your not lazy and havent made masterbating a habit. YOUR PERFECTLY NORMAL. i know a guy that didnt even start masterbating till he was like 17-18.
PUT IT LIKE THIS.... masterbating is not right so dont think you should masterbate to be like every single virgin on this site.

 

[theunflushables]

Man Colla, thats kind of a backwards way of thinking to say having a tug is "not right" its completely natural. I mean it even happens in nature. We've all seen that chimp... Hell, one time I saw a bear giving himself oral satisfaction. Its what people and animals do when they're bored.

 

[oneshot]

'taking part in population control' is all your doing. and if you decide not to spank the monkey, that's fine too.
i once met a tom cruise look-a-like/karate expert/lockpicker/barbed wire climber/leather jacket-wearing really, really cool 16-year old dude who is a NATURAL chick magnet who doesn't watch porn, doesn't jerk off, and has never heard of lube.

 

[SinJester]

LOL sorry man this is pretty funny. I've never heard if a guy with this 'problem' before. Every guy I know admits he wanks and if he doesn't I just assume.

A question: Do you blow in your sleep sometimes?

Serious question, all of us guys would if we don't wank for long enough.

 

[wolf116]

I hit puberty VERY late, The first time I could cvm was when I was 16! So you may just be a late bloomer. But after that it was 5 times a day minimum.

Have you ever cvm?

 

[Fleshy99]

jackinworld.com is a good masturbation information site that clears up alot of questions about masturbation, it was a good source for me when I was 14 to relax about how frequently I did it.
These days in my early 20's I need to do it often because I'm at my sexual peek as a male. So i need to do it more often. There are many biological things that happen in your brain chemistry and so on that masturbation can help you with.
If i didnt masturbate I would just always up uptight, of couse working out and other stress relief is important too, but sexual stress that guys develop needs to be aided because you cant expect a girl to be around all the time, even if you are in a great relationship and your girl is a nympho... you still may want to masturbate for certain health reasons and because you enjoy it.

 

[antidonjuan]

LOL sorry man this is pretty funny. I've never heard if a guy with this 'problem' before. Every guy I know admits he wanks and if he doesn't I just assume.

A question: Do you blow in your sleep sometimes?

Serious question, all of us guys would if we don't wank for long enough.

Yea I *** in my sleep sometimes, maybe once a week. I think about sex about twice a week now and I don't grab my balls.

 

[Daddy The Pimp]

cmon bro , go to redtube.com everyday lol .

You cant even force yourself not to masturbate after a few minutes in there lol

 

[antidonjuan]

wtf, it's a porn site?? I better get off of it

 

[Tekniq]

wtf, it's a porn site?? I better get off of it

:crackup:
It seems like there are more youtube porn ripoffs than actual youtube ripoffs...i personally prefer youjizz.com

 

[collalife]

Man Colla, thats kind of a backwards way of thinking to say having a tug is "not right" its completely natural. I mean it even happens in nature. We've all seen that chimp... Hell, one time I saw a bear giving himself oral satisfaction. Its what people and animals do when they're bored.

honestly masturbation is self deprecating and self destructive and if you dont know it also increases approach anxiety(aa) so that only leaves more worse than better(so youare making yourself have a harder time meeting people). This dude is doing a great job, kid dont jackoff ever, youll end up worse than better.

 

[antidonjuan]

yea thanx, as long as it's not a severe body problem it's fine.
another question: i used to watch porn a lot last year and i dun watch it anymore this year, is that normal too? I'd admit i love to read sex fantasies but not porn.

 

[SinJester]

lol collalife do you have any scientific proof? If it is self depreciating and destructive then 99% of guys are fkcing themselves up by doing it. Not because of any other reasons like being lazy, not exercising, not socialising and not eating right. Oh and by the way wouldn't masterbating basically cause the same chemical reactions as sex? That means sex is bad too! Stay away from sex it will increase your approach anxiety!

Antidonjuan one a week in your sleep sounds messy. Whats the differance between that and getting off once a week? At least you get pleasure out of one of them. No one is serioulsy suggesting you do it every day. But if you can't be sexual with yourself how are you going to ever be sexual with girls?

 

[GaryUranga]

antidonjuan are you a girl

 

[collalife]

lol collalife do you have any scientific proof? If it is self depreciating and destructive then 99% of guys are fkcing themselves up by doing it. Not because of any other reasons like being lazy, not exercising, not socialising and not eating right. Oh and by the way wouldn't masterbating basically cause the same chemical reactions as sex? That means sex is bad too! Stay away from sex it will increase your approach anxiety!

Antidonjuan one a week in your sleep sounds messy. Whats the differance between that and getting off once a week? At least you get pleasure out of one of them. No one is serioulsy suggesting you do it every day. But if you can't be sexual with yourself how are you going to ever be sexual with girls?

sinjester lol.poor guy i got proof check this out.http://www.yangtown.com/ebooks/revive-your-sex-drive-free-taoist-sexual-energy-techniques-ebook/
look it up and read it you numbskull. Also sex is good for everyone, its what humans live for, physical connection/a feeling of importance(psychology stuff). Porn makes you evaluate a woman based on looks, and after the act you feel guilt and shame. When you see a girl you like for her looks, you tie it to the guilt and shame you had jacking off. What don-juans knows that jacking-off is lazy,self destructive, and only limits your socialness and relationships.

 

[SinJester]

Your making assumptions. What if you don't have guilt and shame about jacking off? What if you don't jack off to porn? Sorry bro it's just too normal for me and all of the guys that are succesfull with women that I know jack off too. Sure some guys have a problem with it, porn addiction and whatever, I'm not talking about them I'm talking about normal guys. I am talking about scientific proof not spiritual theorys. Oh and I don't like making a mess of myself every week in my bed.

Here's some links you might want to check out:
http://www.coolnurse.com/masturbation.htm
http://www.newscientist.com/article/dn3942-masturbating-may-protect-against-prostate-cancer.html

There's a few different views here:
http://wiki.answers.com/Q/Is_masturbation_bad_for_you

It is a medically proven fact that any sort of "normal" sexual gratification leads to a happier person as long as it doesn't interfere with you everyday life

Of course it is bad if you do it too much, but so is everything. Anything saying it is bad is purely spiritual with no scientific proof to back it up. Besides would going in your pants drain the same amount of 'life force' as masterbating?

I respect your views but I am just arguing my own. I'm not going to hold a grudge because I've likes what I've seen in some other of your posts.

 

[collalife]

to conclude i believe jacking off is bad, i believe the less masturbation you have in your life, the better it is,but i respect your opinion.