"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
No Masturbating - Am I normal?
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"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.
Stacks Of Terror
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PUT IT LIKE THIS.... masterbating is not right so dont think you should masterbate to be like every single virgin on this site.
theunflushables
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"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
i once met a tom cruise look-a-like/karate expert/lockpicker/barbed wire climber/leather jacket-wearing really, really cool 16-year old dude who is a NATURAL chick magnet who doesn't watch porn, doesn't jerk off, and has never heard of lube.
A question: Do you blow in your sleep sometimes?
Serious question, all of us guys would if we don't wank for long enough.
These days in my early 20's I need to do it often because I'm at my sexual peek as a male. So i need to do it more often. There are many biological things that happen in your brain chemistry and so on that masturbation can help you with.
If i didnt masturbate I would just always up uptight, of couse working out and other stress relief is important too, but sexual stress that guys develop needs to be aided because you cant expect a girl to be around all the time, even if you are in a great relationship and your girl is a nympho... you still may want to masturbate for certain health reasons and because you enjoy it.
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SinJester said:
Yea I *** in my sleep sometimes, maybe once a week. I think about sex about twice a week now and I don't grab my balls.
"She's Out of Your League"
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
Daddy The Pimp
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You cant even force yourself not to masturbate after a few minutes in there lol
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theunflushables said:
honestly masturbation is self deprecating and self destructive and if you dont know it also increases approach anxiety(aa) so that only leaves more worse than better(so youare making yourself have a harder time meeting people). This dude is doing a great job, kid dont jackoff ever, youll end up worse than better.
antidonjuan
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another question: i used to watch porn a lot last year and i dun watch it anymore this year, is that normal too? I'd admit i love to read sex fantasies but not porn.
"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
Antidonjuan one a week in your sleep sounds messy. Whats the differance between that and getting off once a week? At least you get pleasure out of one of them. No one is serioulsy suggesting you do it every day. But if you can't be sexual with yourself how are you going to ever be sexual with girls?
GaryUranga
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sinjester lol.poor guy i got proof check this out.http://www.yangtown.com/ebooks/revive-your-sex-drive-free-taoist-sexual-energy-techniques-ebook/SinJester said:
look it up and read it you numbskull. Also sex is good for everyone, its what humans live for, physical connection/a feeling of importance(psychology stuff). Porn makes you evaluate a woman based on looks, and after the act you feel guilt and shame. When you see a girl you like for her looks, you tie it to the guilt and shame you had jacking off. What don-juans knows that jacking-off is lazy,self destructive, and only limits your socialness and relationships.
Here's some links you might want to check out:
http://www.coolnurse.com/masturbation.htm
http://www.newscientist.com/article/dn3942-masturbating-may-protect-against-prostate-cancer.html
There's a few different views here:
http://wiki.answers.com/Q/Is_masturbation_bad_for_you
Of course it is bad if you do it too much, but so is everything. Anything saying it is bad is purely spiritual with no scientific proof to back it up. Besides would going in your pants drain the same amount of 'life force' as masterbating?
I respect your views but I am just arguing my own. I'm not going to hold a grudge because I've likes what I've seen in some other of your posts.
"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.