"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
No Masturbating - Am I normal?
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"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
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PUT IT LIKE THIS.... masterbating is not right so dont think you should masterbate to be like every single virgin on this site.
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"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
i once met a tom cruise look-a-like/karate expert/lockpicker/barbed wire climber/leather jacket-wearing really, really cool 16-year old dude who is a NATURAL chick magnet who doesn't watch porn, doesn't jerk off, and has never heard of lube.
A question: Do you blow in your sleep sometimes?
Serious question, all of us guys would if we don't wank for long enough.
These days in my early 20's I need to do it often because I'm at my sexual peek as a male. So i need to do it more often. There are many biological things that happen in your brain chemistry and so on that masturbation can help you with.
If i didnt masturbate I would just always up uptight, of couse working out and other stress relief is important too, but sexual stress that guys develop needs to be aided because you cant expect a girl to be around all the time, even if you are in a great relationship and your girl is a nympho... you still may want to masturbate for certain health reasons and because you enjoy it.
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SinJester said:
Yea I *** in my sleep sometimes, maybe once a week. I think about sex about twice a week now and I don't grab my balls.
"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
Daddy The Pimp
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You cant even force yourself not to masturbate after a few minutes in there lol
antidonjuan
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theunflushables said:
honestly masturbation is self deprecating and self destructive and if you dont know it also increases approach anxiety(aa) so that only leaves more worse than better(so youare making yourself have a harder time meeting people). This dude is doing a great job, kid dont jackoff ever, youll end up worse than better.
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another question: i used to watch porn a lot last year and i dun watch it anymore this year, is that normal too? I'd admit i love to read sex fantasies but not porn.
"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
Antidonjuan one a week in your sleep sounds messy. Whats the differance between that and getting off once a week? At least you get pleasure out of one of them. No one is serioulsy suggesting you do it every day. But if you can't be sexual with yourself how are you going to ever be sexual with girls?
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sinjester lol.poor guy i got proof check this out.http://www.yangtown.com/ebooks/revive-your-sex-drive-free-taoist-sexual-energy-techniques-ebook/SinJester said:
look it up and read it you numbskull. Also sex is good for everyone, its what humans live for, physical connection/a feeling of importance(psychology stuff). Porn makes you evaluate a woman based on looks, and after the act you feel guilt and shame. When you see a girl you like for her looks, you tie it to the guilt and shame you had jacking off. What don-juans knows that jacking-off is lazy,self destructive, and only limits your socialness and relationships.
Here's some links you might want to check out:
http://www.coolnurse.com/masturbation.htm
http://www.newscientist.com/article/dn3942-masturbating-may-protect-against-prostate-cancer.html
There's a few different views here:
http://wiki.answers.com/Q/Is_masturbation_bad_for_you
Of course it is bad if you do it too much, but so is everything. Anything saying it is bad is purely spiritual with no scientific proof to back it up. Besides would going in your pants drain the same amount of 'life force' as masterbating?
I respect your views but I am just arguing my own. I'm not going to hold a grudge because I've likes what I've seen in some other of your posts.
"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.