@Lookatu in response to your question:
Night started with her coming over, I was finishing dinner, and initiated kino throughout the night. At some point I invited her into the living room to finish our wine. She didn't necessarily position herself on the couch to not be kissed, but the vibe wasn't quite there yet. I didn't want to rush it and jump the gun.
At some point I threw on the sound system and LED lights in my place and we started dancing (I showed her some bachata and she showed me forro). This is normally the point where I will make a move to lean in for the kiss, but again, she was always just kind of out of reach or the timing wasn't right.
Eventually we end up back on the couch, close together, and she has her hand on my arm and was smiling at me. I thought "it's now or never boy." I smiled and said "come here", leaned in, and started to make out.
We cont. to make out but when I started escalating things she would stop me a bit and say "are we rushing things?" To which I just smiled, didn't respond, and kept kissing her necks and breasts. She kind of pulled away at some points and I thought "fuuck - this isn't happening tonight..." But I stayed persistent, continued to escalate, and eventually she just started taking more clothes off and the deed was done my man!