"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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No homo but... would you say Im attractive?

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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I didn't look at the photos.

But if a man needs to ask a bunch of anonymous men whether or not he's good looking, chance are he is not.
 

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bigneil said:
I didn't look at the photos.

But if a man needs to ask a bunch of anonymous men whether or not he's good looking, chance are he is not.
Nah, its just that i either get "youre reallyy hot" or they seem unattracted...
 

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Over the next couple of years your look will change quite a bit as you fill out.

I think you will do just fine.

Great attitude while being poked at by the resident d!ckheads. Your personality will take you further than your looks.
 

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As a girl I'd have to say your overall look is "okay"

I mean, you look significantly younger than me so I don't exactly think I'm the best judge. When I was in high school I would have thought you were "cute" in a "dorky" sort of way.
No offence.

It's the hair, and you kind of need to fill out some more. Broader shoulders, etc. The advice given in here is pretty good.
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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bigneil said:
I didn't look at the photos.

But if a man needs to ask a bunch of anonymous men whether or not he's good looking, chance are he is not.
Don't pay bigneil any mind. He gets sensitive when he hasn't seen his therapist in a while
 

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gpshields3 said:
Don't pay bigneil any mind. He gets sensitive when he hasn't seen his therapist in a while
Take it from one star who takes Prozac.

But hang in there one star. Some day. Some day someone will agree with one of your posts.
 

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bigneil said:
I didn't look at the photos.

But if a man needs to ask a bunch of anonymous men whether or not he's good looking, chance are he is not.
Is this like when a man needs to ask a bunch of anonymous men whether or not his girlfriend is cute and he has them rate her?
 

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i guess Pic 1 lets you appear pretty attractive. is this a beard? keep it. i wouldnt also change too much about your body, you are not the type for lots of muscles. toning is fine tho, your upper body could need some. do you play guitar? if not try to learn it. and get a few accessoires. necklace or something. overall there is potential for looking like a cool dude.

pic 2+3 you dont look attractive because you look like a boy. well the girls in your age range might not mind as much, but often they will go for someone who looks more mature. the pic with your sisters (?) also shows a bad dynamic. sister or not you dont want to be seen on a pic with a hot girl and look like her puppy dog. it should be her head on your shoulder. much different. and since she is so damn cute ... let her help you. there should be a bunch of hot other girls that she knows and thus you have access to. for training and more.
 

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AlexDP said:
Is this like when a man needs to ask a bunch of anonymous men whether or not his girlfriend is cute and he has them rate her?

OHHHHH burn!
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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its good to get opinions from other guys man, dont stress it. we're here to help each other out, or so I would assume.

your skin and facial structure is good.
you need to put on some muscle and fix your hair, it doesnt fit you.

check out like bodybuilding.com

and find a more blunt hairdresser.
 
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