Nothin like some good incest right?gpshields3 said:You tappin' those girls in the last picture? That's what's up!
She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.
You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.
The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.
Nothin like some good incest right?gpshields3 said:You tappin' those girls in the last picture? That's what's up!
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
Nah, its just that i either get "youre reallyy hot" or they seem unattracted...bigneil said:I didn't look at the photos.
But if a man needs to ask a bunch of anonymous men whether or not he's good looking, chance are he is not.
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
Don't pay bigneil any mind. He gets sensitive when he hasn't seen his therapist in a whilebigneil said:I didn't look at the photos.
But if a man needs to ask a bunch of anonymous men whether or not he's good looking, chance are he is not.
Take it from one star who takes Prozac.gpshields3 said:Don't pay bigneil any mind. He gets sensitive when he hasn't seen his therapist in a while
Is this like when a man needs to ask a bunch of anonymous men whether or not his girlfriend is cute and he has them rate her?bigneil said:I didn't look at the photos.
But if a man needs to ask a bunch of anonymous men whether or not he's good looking, chance are he is not.
AlexDP said:Is this like when a man needs to ask a bunch of anonymous men whether or not his girlfriend is cute and he has them rate her?
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.