Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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No homo but... would you say Im attractive?

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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I didn't look at the photos.

But if a man needs to ask a bunch of anonymous men whether or not he's good looking, chance are he is not.
 

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bigneil said:
I didn't look at the photos.

But if a man needs to ask a bunch of anonymous men whether or not he's good looking, chance are he is not.
Nah, its just that i either get "youre reallyy hot" or they seem unattracted...
 

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Over the next couple of years your look will change quite a bit as you fill out.

I think you will do just fine.

Great attitude while being poked at by the resident d!ckheads. Your personality will take you further than your looks.
 

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As a girl I'd have to say your overall look is "okay"

I mean, you look significantly younger than me so I don't exactly think I'm the best judge. When I was in high school I would have thought you were "cute" in a "dorky" sort of way.
No offence.

It's the hair, and you kind of need to fill out some more. Broader shoulders, etc. The advice given in here is pretty good.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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bigneil said:
I didn't look at the photos.

But if a man needs to ask a bunch of anonymous men whether or not he's good looking, chance are he is not.
Don't pay bigneil any mind. He gets sensitive when he hasn't seen his therapist in a while
 

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gpshields3 said:
Don't pay bigneil any mind. He gets sensitive when he hasn't seen his therapist in a while
Take it from one star who takes Prozac.

But hang in there one star. Some day. Some day someone will agree with one of your posts.
 

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bigneil said:
I didn't look at the photos.

But if a man needs to ask a bunch of anonymous men whether or not he's good looking, chance are he is not.
Is this like when a man needs to ask a bunch of anonymous men whether or not his girlfriend is cute and he has them rate her?
 

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i guess Pic 1 lets you appear pretty attractive. is this a beard? keep it. i wouldnt also change too much about your body, you are not the type for lots of muscles. toning is fine tho, your upper body could need some. do you play guitar? if not try to learn it. and get a few accessoires. necklace or something. overall there is potential for looking like a cool dude.

pic 2+3 you dont look attractive because you look like a boy. well the girls in your age range might not mind as much, but often they will go for someone who looks more mature. the pic with your sisters (?) also shows a bad dynamic. sister or not you dont want to be seen on a pic with a hot girl and look like her puppy dog. it should be her head on your shoulder. much different. and since she is so damn cute ... let her help you. there should be a bunch of hot other girls that she knows and thus you have access to. for training and more.
 

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AlexDP said:
Is this like when a man needs to ask a bunch of anonymous men whether or not his girlfriend is cute and he has them rate her?

OHHHHH burn!
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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its good to get opinions from other guys man, dont stress it. we're here to help each other out, or so I would assume.

your skin and facial structure is good.
you need to put on some muscle and fix your hair, it doesnt fit you.

check out like bodybuilding.com

and find a more blunt hairdresser.
 
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