"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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No homo but... would you say Im attractive?

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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bigneil

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I didn't look at the photos.

But if a man needs to ask a bunch of anonymous men whether or not he's good looking, chance are he is not.
 

Rafa

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bigneil said:
I didn't look at the photos.

But if a man needs to ask a bunch of anonymous men whether or not he's good looking, chance are he is not.
Nah, its just that i either get "youre reallyy hot" or they seem unattracted...
 

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Over the next couple of years your look will change quite a bit as you fill out.

I think you will do just fine.

Great attitude while being poked at by the resident d!ckheads. Your personality will take you further than your looks.
 

pinkfl

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As a girl I'd have to say your overall look is "okay"

I mean, you look significantly younger than me so I don't exactly think I'm the best judge. When I was in high school I would have thought you were "cute" in a "dorky" sort of way.
No offence.

It's the hair, and you kind of need to fill out some more. Broader shoulders, etc. The advice given in here is pretty good.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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bigneil said:
I didn't look at the photos.

But if a man needs to ask a bunch of anonymous men whether or not he's good looking, chance are he is not.
Don't pay bigneil any mind. He gets sensitive when he hasn't seen his therapist in a while
 

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gpshields3 said:
Don't pay bigneil any mind. He gets sensitive when he hasn't seen his therapist in a while
Take it from one star who takes Prozac.

But hang in there one star. Some day. Some day someone will agree with one of your posts.
 

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bigneil said:
I didn't look at the photos.

But if a man needs to ask a bunch of anonymous men whether or not he's good looking, chance are he is not.
Is this like when a man needs to ask a bunch of anonymous men whether or not his girlfriend is cute and he has them rate her?
 

flashpoint

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i guess Pic 1 lets you appear pretty attractive. is this a beard? keep it. i wouldnt also change too much about your body, you are not the type for lots of muscles. toning is fine tho, your upper body could need some. do you play guitar? if not try to learn it. and get a few accessoires. necklace or something. overall there is potential for looking like a cool dude.

pic 2+3 you dont look attractive because you look like a boy. well the girls in your age range might not mind as much, but often they will go for someone who looks more mature. the pic with your sisters (?) also shows a bad dynamic. sister or not you dont want to be seen on a pic with a hot girl and look like her puppy dog. it should be her head on your shoulder. much different. and since she is so damn cute ... let her help you. there should be a bunch of hot other girls that she knows and thus you have access to. for training and more.
 

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AlexDP said:
Is this like when a man needs to ask a bunch of anonymous men whether or not his girlfriend is cute and he has them rate her?

OHHHHH burn!
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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its good to get opinions from other guys man, dont stress it. we're here to help each other out, or so I would assume.

your skin and facial structure is good.
you need to put on some muscle and fix your hair, it doesnt fit you.

check out like bodybuilding.com

and find a more blunt hairdresser.
 
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