"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
No homo but... would you say Im attractive?
- Thread starter Rafa
- Start date
"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
I think you will do just fine.
Great attitude while being poked at by the resident d!ckheads. Your personality will take you further than your looks.
I mean, you look significantly younger than me so I don't exactly think I'm the best judge. When I was in high school I would have thought you were "cute" in a "dorky" sort of way.
No offence.
It's the hair, and you kind of need to fill out some more. Broader shoulders, etc. The advice given in here is pretty good.
"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
gpshields3
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Don't pay bigneil any mind. He gets sensitive when he hasn't seen his therapist in a whilebigneil said:
flashpoint
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pic 2+3 you dont look attractive because you look like a boy. well the girls in your age range might not mind as much, but often they will go for someone who looks more mature. the pic with your sisters (?) also shows a bad dynamic. sister or not you dont want to be seen on a pic with a hot girl and look like her puppy dog. it should be her head on your shoulder. much different. and since she is so damn cute ... let her help you. there should be a bunch of hot other girls that she knows and thus you have access to. for training and more.
gpshields3
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AlexDP said:
OHHHHH burn!
"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
powpow
Senior Don Juan
your skin and facial structure is good.
you need to put on some muscle and fix your hair, it doesnt fit you.
check out like bodybuilding.com
and find a more blunt hairdresser.
