Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
Haaa 136 sir and yeah, I just got a membership to a gym. I might hire a trainer but Ill keep that program in mind, thankscordoncordon said:You are not bad looking at all. Seriously. You have a nice face. But man do you need to lift heavy and put on some weight. I bet you weight what? 130-140? That is skinnnnnny.
For the love of all that is Holy, start EATING and LIFTING.
Good place to start would be here>
http://www.simplyshredded.com/exclusive-zyzz-interview.html
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
^^^^ That's exactly what I was thinking.... Bulk up a little and style the hair.DonJuanabe said:You don't need a trainer - that's a waste of money. PM me and I'll train you for free (sports medicine background and athlete for 30 years).
Do something with your hair -- it's too puffy on the sides.
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
word up, nothing wrong with that.d!ckmojo said:I think you look ugly, but I'm sure heaps of girls could find some sort of hamster rationalization for thinking you're "cute" if you gave them good reason too... :/
Yeah im definitely gonna start working out... too much free time anyway after school. I might change the sides of my hair a little bit but I dont like to put too much effort into it so I dont think Im gonna style it.The Gambler said:^^^^ That's exactly what I was thinking.... Bulk up a little and style the hair.
You can have a great future my young friend.
The Gambler
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
Cool...MM92 said:I like your sister
Yup, gettin better erryday... i definitely am tired of being so skinny doe, gotta change that.Stagger Lee said:I didn't want to criticise your looks, but I felt you were maybe just passably good looking enough for girls. But I also believe non-verbals and facial expressiveness cause attraction in women, provided your looks are at least to the minimum standard, which appears you have.
It's kind of the looks vs personality (game) argument. I believe personality is still mostly appearance. In other words how express things and your nonverbals than what you say.
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.