"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
No homo but... would you say Im attractive?
- Thread starter Rafa
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"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
Ringleader41
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If youre in to middle school and high school girls
cordoncordon
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You are not bad looking at all. Seriously. You have a nice face. But man do you need to lift heavy and put on some weight. I bet you weight what? 130-140? That is skinnnnnny.
For the love of all that is Holy, start EATING and LIFTING.
Good place to start would be here>
http://www.simplyshredded.com/exclusive-zyzz-interview.html
For the love of all that is Holy, start EATING and LIFTING.
Good place to start would be here>
http://www.simplyshredded.com/exclusive-zyzz-interview.html
"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
DonJuanabe
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You don't need a trainer - that's a waste of money. PM me and I'll train you for free (sports medicine background and athlete for 30 years).
Do something with your hair -- it's too puffy on the sides.
Do something with your hair -- it's too puffy on the sides.
The Gambler
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^^^^ That's exactly what I was thinking.... Bulk up a little and style the hair.DonJuanabe said:
You can have a great future my young friend.
The Gambler
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If you are the middle girl in that last picture then YES you are attractive, otherwise, no. I'm not attracted to you.
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If you had a vagina, I'd bang you.
PapiChulo
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I would bone the hell out of your sister and mother (maybe). You look like any other school boy, still a baby.
"She's Out of Your League"
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
GotED?
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stop smoking weed and your hair will stop looking like that
Packers2010
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make me want to make a thread like this.. just so they can tell me i'm ugly.
your fine bro. you got some nice jb babes there.. the only thing i would say is get a hair cut.
that's it.
your fine bro. you got some nice jb babes there.. the only thing i would say is get a hair cut.
that's it.
d!ckmojo
Senior Don Juan
I think you look ugly, but I'm sure heaps of girls could find some sort of hamster rationalization for thinking you're "cute" if you gave them good reason too... :/
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Yeah im definitely gonna start working out... too much free time anyway after school. I might change the sides of my hair a little bit but I dont like to put too much effort into it so I dont think Im gonna style it.The Gambler said:
“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”
Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.
I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.
Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules. Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.
Stagger Lee
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I didn't want to criticise your looks, but I felt you were maybe just passably good looking enough for girls. But I also believe non-verbals and facial expressiveness cause attraction in women, provided your looks are at least to the minimum standard, which appears you have.
It's kind of the looks vs personality (game) argument. I believe personality is still mostly appearance. In other words, it's more about how you express things and your nonverbals than what you say.
It's kind of the looks vs personality (game) argument. I believe personality is still mostly appearance. In other words, it's more about how you express things and your nonverbals than what you say.
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gpshields3
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You tappin' those girls in the last picture? That's what's up!
"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.