"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
No homo but... would you say Im attractive?
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"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
Ringleader41
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If youre in to middle school and high school girls
cordoncordon
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You are not bad looking at all. Seriously. You have a nice face. But man do you need to lift heavy and put on some weight. I bet you weight what? 130-140? That is skinnnnnny.
For the love of all that is Holy, start EATING and LIFTING.
Good place to start would be here>
http://www.simplyshredded.com/exclusive-zyzz-interview.html
For the love of all that is Holy, start EATING and LIFTING.
Good place to start would be here>
http://www.simplyshredded.com/exclusive-zyzz-interview.html
"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
DonJuanabe
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You don't need a trainer - that's a waste of money. PM me and I'll train you for free (sports medicine background and athlete for 30 years).
Do something with your hair -- it's too puffy on the sides.
Do something with your hair -- it's too puffy on the sides.
The Gambler
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^^^^ That's exactly what I was thinking.... Bulk up a little and style the hair.DonJuanabe said:
You can have a great future my young friend.
The Gambler
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If you are the middle girl in that last picture then YES you are attractive, otherwise, no. I'm not attracted to you.
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If you had a vagina, I'd bang you.
PapiChulo
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I would bone the hell out of your sister and mother (maybe). You look like any other school boy, still a baby.
"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
GotED?
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stop smoking weed and your hair will stop looking like that
Packers2010
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make me want to make a thread like this.. just so they can tell me i'm ugly.
your fine bro. you got some nice jb babes there.. the only thing i would say is get a hair cut.
that's it.
your fine bro. you got some nice jb babes there.. the only thing i would say is get a hair cut.
that's it.
d!ckmojo
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I think you look ugly, but I'm sure heaps of girls could find some sort of hamster rationalization for thinking you're "cute" if you gave them good reason too... :/
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Yeah im definitely gonna start working out... too much free time anyway after school. I might change the sides of my hair a little bit but I dont like to put too much effort into it so I dont think Im gonna style it.The Gambler said:
"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
Stagger Lee
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I didn't want to criticise your looks, but I felt you were maybe just passably good looking enough for girls. But I also believe non-verbals and facial expressiveness cause attraction in women, provided your looks are at least to the minimum standard, which appears you have.
It's kind of the looks vs personality (game) argument. I believe personality is still mostly appearance. In other words, it's more about how you express things and your nonverbals than what you say.
It's kind of the looks vs personality (game) argument. I believe personality is still mostly appearance. In other words, it's more about how you express things and your nonverbals than what you say.
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gpshields3
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You tappin' those girls in the last picture? That's what's up!
"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.