"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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No homo but... would you say Im attractive?

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Rafa

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cordoncordon said:
You are not bad looking at all. Seriously. You have a nice face. But man do you need to lift heavy and put on some weight. I bet you weight what? 130-140? That is skinnnnnny.

For the love of all that is Holy, start EATING and LIFTING.

Good place to start would be here>

http://www.simplyshredded.com/exclusive-zyzz-interview.html
Haaa 136 sir and yeah, I just got a membership to a gym. I might hire a trainer but Ill keep that program in mind, thanks
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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DonJuanabe

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You don't need a trainer - that's a waste of money. PM me and I'll train you for free (sports medicine background and athlete for 30 years).

Do something with your hair -- it's too puffy on the sides.
 

The Gambler

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DonJuanabe said:
You don't need a trainer - that's a waste of money. PM me and I'll train you for free (sports medicine background and athlete for 30 years).

Do something with your hair -- it's too puffy on the sides.
^^^^ That's exactly what I was thinking.... Bulk up a little and style the hair.

You can have a great future my young friend.

The Gambler
 

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If you are the middle girl in that last picture then YES you are attractive, otherwise, no. I'm not attracted to you.
 

PapiChulo

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I would bone the hell out of your sister and mother (maybe). You look like any other school boy, still a baby.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Packers2010

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make me want to make a thread like this.. just so they can tell me i'm ugly.

your fine bro. you got some nice jb babes there.. the only thing i would say is get a hair cut.

that's it.
 

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I think you look ugly, but I'm sure heaps of girls could find some sort of hamster rationalization for thinking you're "cute" if you gave them good reason too... :/
 
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Rafa

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d!ckmojo said:
I think you look ugly, but I'm sure heaps of girls could find some sort of hamster rationalization for thinking you're "cute" if you gave them good reason too... :/
word up, nothing wrong with that.
 

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The Gambler said:
^^^^ That's exactly what I was thinking.... Bulk up a little and style the hair.

You can have a great future my young friend.

The Gambler
Yeah im definitely gonna start working out... too much free time anyway after school. I might change the sides of my hair a little bit but I dont like to put too much effort into it so I dont think Im gonna style it.
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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I didn't want to criticise your looks, but I felt you were maybe just passably good looking enough for girls. But I also believe non-verbals and facial expressiveness cause attraction in women, provided your looks are at least to the minimum standard, which appears you have.

It's kind of the looks vs personality (game) argument. I believe personality is still mostly appearance. In other words, it's more about how you express things and your nonverbals than what you say.
 
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Stagger Lee said:
I didn't want to criticise your looks, but I felt you were maybe just passably good looking enough for girls. But I also believe non-verbals and facial expressiveness cause attraction in women, provided your looks are at least to the minimum standard, which appears you have.

It's kind of the looks vs personality (game) argument. I believe personality is still mostly appearance. In other words how express things and your nonverbals than what you say.
Yup, gettin better erryday... i definitely am tired of being so skinny doe, gotta change that.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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