She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
Haaa 136 sir and yeah, I just got a membership to a gym. I might hire a trainer but Ill keep that program in mind, thankscordoncordon said:You are not bad looking at all. Seriously. You have a nice face. But man do you need to lift heavy and put on some weight. I bet you weight what? 130-140? That is skinnnnnny.
For the love of all that is Holy, start EATING and LIFTING.
Good place to start would be here>
http://www.simplyshredded.com/exclusive-zyzz-interview.html
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.
^^^^ That's exactly what I was thinking.... Bulk up a little and style the hair.DonJuanabe said:You don't need a trainer - that's a waste of money. PM me and I'll train you for free (sports medicine background and athlete for 30 years).
Do something with your hair -- it's too puffy on the sides.
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
word up, nothing wrong with that.d!ckmojo said:I think you look ugly, but I'm sure heaps of girls could find some sort of hamster rationalization for thinking you're "cute" if you gave them good reason too... :/
Yeah im definitely gonna start working out... too much free time anyway after school. I might change the sides of my hair a little bit but I dont like to put too much effort into it so I dont think Im gonna style it.The Gambler said:^^^^ That's exactly what I was thinking.... Bulk up a little and style the hair.
You can have a great future my young friend.
The Gambler
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
Cool...MM92 said:I like your sister
Yup, gettin better erryday... i definitely am tired of being so skinny doe, gotta change that.Stagger Lee said:I didn't want to criticise your looks, but I felt you were maybe just passably good looking enough for girls. But I also believe non-verbals and facial expressiveness cause attraction in women, provided your looks are at least to the minimum standard, which appears you have.
It's kind of the looks vs personality (game) argument. I believe personality is still mostly appearance. In other words how express things and your nonverbals than what you say.
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.