lizardking82
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How do you see it?
"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
No fights/jealousy = no passion? Yes or no?
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"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
wifehunter
Master Don Juan
Childish
mrgoodstuff
Master Don Juan
I had one of those sex when I wanted it and a helpful lady.
wifehunter
Master Don Juan
"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
The Duke
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My exwife and I never had any jealousy or fights in all the years we were together. There was plenty of passion and we both had a ton of respect for each other. The key to it all is having two level headed people that can sit down and discuss an issue and try to understand where the other is coming from. If you can do this, you can keep arguments from turning into fights. Neither of us were "jealous" personalities and our effective communication kept the fights from happening. I've had this with one other girl, its very rare to find.
ImTheDoubleGreatest!
Master Don Juan
Depends on the situation. It's alright for her to get a little bit worried/insecure if she sees you talking to other chicks CONSTANTLY. I see nothing wrong with that because it just means that she doesn't want to lose you; she cares about you. But if she's using at as a power play to try and guilt-trip you or make you seem like a horrible person over the slightest glance of a woman or something, then it's bad. That could just mean that she is now self-destructing the relationship because she doesn't want to be in it anymore yet also doesn't want to be the one to take the blame for it. Either that or she is projecting because she has started seeing some other guy behind your back so she makes herself feel better about it by saying that you are too. That's all subconscious though.
It's all dependent on the situation, as you can see.
It's all dependent on the situation, as you can see.
Speaking as a woman who is extremely intelligent and right about absolutely everything. I can't imagine a life without a good fight now and then. It helps with boundaries I find.
Jealousy is a strange one. I have never experienced this myself. If I find another woman is or has played about with my hunk of meat, she can have him. I don't like left overs.
When men have exhibited jealousy over me, it makes me feel confused and very guilty. It is not something that I like to feel responsible for.
Jealousy is a strange one. I have never experienced this myself. If I find another woman is or has played about with my hunk of meat, she can have him. I don't like left overs.
When men have exhibited jealousy over me, it makes me feel confused and very guilty. It is not something that I like to feel responsible for.
"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
mrgoodstuff
Master Don Juan
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WOAH. " right about absolutely everything".... That scares me that you actually believe that
I know, its meant to.
But it is true. I try to restrain myself but if you saw a baby stumbling towards a busy road wouldn't you do something? That is how I feel. I also say to people who do not heed my advice, "I told you that would happen" - which is even more annoying.
Interesting introduction, unusual name you have there. Were you named after your father?
I am sure that while you are obviously not sapient you must be glad you were not named nincompoop instead.
wifehunter
Master Don Juan
Psst!!! She's 100% DEAD WRONG.
devilkingx2
Master Don Juan
the only reason that no fights and jealously would mean no passion would be if your woman was so nuts that she can't care about someone without acting like a crazy person
"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
JohnChops
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This. I don't remember the last time I actually fought with a girl. Bring her into your reality, which should not consist of conflict.