Born_Again
Don Juan
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I'll try anything once, so why not day 1
"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
No Fap Challenge Progress
- Thread starter Mr.SomeoneElse
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"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
YoungSir4sho
Senior Don Juan
Failed again this morning unfortunately. Think cuz it was raining a bit last night smh.. On day 1!! Not messing up this time..
Cerwin Vega
Master Don Juan
Day 1
"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
narcissist
Master Don Juan
Okay time to get serious fellas.
Day fvcking 1
My NoFap Goals
1] Do not Fap for 90 days
2] Do not watch ANY pornography for 90 days
3] The only orgasms I can have are from a woman directly
4] Document every day the changes I see/feel
Reason why I am doing this:
Yesterday I had sex with this girl and my d1ck went limp, and when I finally got it back up it was like a semi and took me forEVER to bust, and Im fvcking 21. Thats ridiculous. My sex drive should be THROUGH the roof. Im basically at a point where fvcking a hot chick doesn't do it for me. I have a serious porn and fapping problem.
LETS GOOOOOOO!
Day fvcking 1
My NoFap Goals
1] Do not Fap for 90 days
2] Do not watch ANY pornography for 90 days
3] The only orgasms I can have are from a woman directly
4] Document every day the changes I see/feel
Reason why I am doing this:
Yesterday I had sex with this girl and my d1ck went limp, and when I finally got it back up it was like a semi and took me forEVER to bust, and Im fvcking 21. Thats ridiculous. My sex drive should be THROUGH the roof. Im basically at a point where fvcking a hot chick doesn't do it for me. I have a serious porn and fapping problem.
LETS GOOOOOOO!
narcissist
Master Don Juan
Start of day 2.
Its been 24 hours since Ive started.
I want to fap really badly. I will not DO IT. I must push forward.
Will power. Will power. Will power.
Its been 24 hours since Ive started.
I want to fap really badly. I will not DO IT. I must push forward.
Will power. Will power. Will power.
"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
narcissist
Master Don Juan
ovoxo said:
You got this bro! stick in there.
Im just verging on 36 hours now.
Feel pretty good. No urges.
Me and you are the only ones doin it right now so we gotta give each other motivation! feel me?
Die Hard
Master Don Juan
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40 days now. So proud, lol.
I gotta admit, I do fap for a brief moment now and then, but just with my imagination, no porn, and I don't cvm.
I see no problem in doing this, though. I consider it more as a short exercise to see if I can still get it up, just like your body does every morning at waking up. As soon as I feel the urge to go work towards an orgasm, I quit.
I gotta admit, I do fap for a brief moment now and then, but just with my imagination, no porn, and I don't cvm.
I see no problem in doing this, though. I consider it more as a short exercise to see if I can still get it up, just like your body does every morning at waking up. As soon as I feel the urge to go work towards an orgasm, I quit.
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narcissist
Master Don Juan
Day 3... This is the longest i have gone in about 4 years without fapping...
Still dont feel any side effects.
Although yesterday when I was reading i had unbelievable cravings
Still dont feel any side effects.
Although yesterday when I was reading i had unbelievable cravings
"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
Redwood
Senior Don Juan
Funnily enough for me, I always get an urge to fap at 3AM.
Limiting myself is a huge challenge seeing that habits are HARD to break.
Day 1 for me.
Limiting myself is a huge challenge seeing that habits are HARD to break.
Day 1 for me.
narcissist
Master Don Juan
Day 4
Redwood
Senior Don Juan
Time to restart.
narcissist
Master Don Juan
Day 5
melancholy
Don Juan
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Day 5 for me.
“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.